My brother sent me a very long message on Facebook of all places. I've never really dealt with full on rejection from a family member about my transition so far so this was very unexpected and hurt...
My brother sent me a very long message on Facebook of all places. I've never really dealt with full on rejection from a family member about my transition so far so this was very unexpected and hurtful. I haven't responded back to him because I still don't know what to say. Regarding the last part of the letter, my brother says that about my mom because she is an out lesbian and he thinks she made me this way. He's also still bitter about her leaving my dad for another woman and blames all his faults in life on her.
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your brother sounds extremely intelligent but he seems to not understand trans feelings or not accept it happening to him/ppl around him. And if you tell someone your trans before a relationship then it dont matter. Plus you dont look ugly as a guy to me, you look normal, what he probably sees as ugly is your femanine features being more masculine. Hopefully if he gets to see that your a nice person that he likes as a person he'll come round. Good Luck.
Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear how your family is responding to your transition. This response is hateful and unnecessary. Be true to yourself because you are correct, despite your physical appearance you are the same person. Know that you are supported, even if only through an online community. I have personally found that the LGBT community is my real family and I hold the friends I have made close. *Hugs*
that is too crazy, but that just shows how much he cares for you, and to him you are dieing and you won't be you, even though mentally you will be you, 2 him u won't, i d/k, lol, once he understands that what your doing isn't a mistake he will come around and everything will be cool, just give it time, i've never had to come out for some reason everyone just already knew & didn't care, but i hope all goes well for you and your family and it looks like your transition is coming along nicely :)
I understand where you are coming from with this, and I thought of that too. But I thought he knew me enough to know that hormones can't change who I am as a person. Thank you so much for the comment. =]
i totally understand what you mean, if my brother did that, man, i would beat the fuck out his ass cause ur family and should be there for support not for critism. shit is pretty crazy. hopefully he understand soon, thnx for the vids i enjoyed em
WOW. I am so sorry you had to receive something like this during the course of your transition. How insulting to refer to your physical features in such a way. Your brother is wrong. Your love for him is so evident in the video, and it is truly sad to see that he's the one missing out on a wonderful human being. Keep your head up Serge. Your peace is your own to find, conquer, and live with. We are all entitled. I wish you the best. I hope you are able to accomplish everything you set out to.
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Keep working towards the handsome man that you are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All my best from Canada!!!!!!!!
xoxox
Know that you are supported, even if only through an online community. I have personally found that the LGBT community is my real family and I hold the friends I have made close. *Hugs*