State of Black Relationships - Interesting Dialogue

Interesting dialogue between black men and women regarding the state of our relationships. We need to continue this dialogue until we can come up with a sound resolution.

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[izzyice123]

It is important to focus on our issues and NOT compare white woman to black women because it takes away from finding the solution to OUR issues as a black nation.

[Jayjen35]

Man, "White soccer moms know their role and don't give their husbands grief" ????

Just then thousands of white guys huddled in their man caves hoping to have at least an hour before they have to take care of the kids, do the dishes or vacuum the house in order to help their wives or hear about it for the next few days, just sat and yelled "are you *ucking kidding me???"

Seriously, where do black men get these flights of fancy about submissive white women. I've never seen one myself

[KharismaBrown]

@427skies. I agree with you wholeheartedly. Good Black women should not waste their time listening to irrelevant stuff that does not apply to them. I'm going to keep doing my thing and hopefully I will meet a Black man who appreciates a woman like myself.

[KharismaBrown]

@Vincent15641. It is beating her down because the men in this video and others often have negative ish to say about Black women instead of positive. Just like Black men get tired of it, we are getting tired of it. It would be considered constructive criticism if both sides of the issue were discussed. In order to "get our Black community together" we have to support one another & find the beauty in one another instead of pre-judging/mis-judging. It's not fair to judge all Black women by a few.

[427skies]

@KharismaBrown I don't know, but whatever. I don't even stress over Black men. That's their problem, not mine. I'm not waiting for the "perfect Black man", nope. I'm moving forward and keepin my options open.

[vincent15641]

@KharismaBrown If a black man tells a black woman what she is doing wrong, how is that beating her down or hating her? If I saw you were unknowingly about to step into a trap, If I hated you I would not say anything.

The problem with black women is they do not respect what black men have to say and assume we are beating them down instead of offering constructive criticism so we can get our black community together.

[KharismaBrown]

When will Black men stand up for Black women instead of beating us down?

[KharismaBrown]

Black soccer moms really????? Black woman is too busy working 2 jobs to support her family to be a damn soccer mom. That dude sounded stupid! Love the video though! :-)

[SoSeductive1981]

This message is a response to Twoodssax1234567

[SoSeductive1981]

Another thing is looking at some females that I've known and worked with, a lot of people stupidly still have unprotected sex with their partners and that could end up as a result of unplanned pregnancy. 

[SoSeductive1981]

@Twoodssax1234567 From a woman's perspective, some women (not all) have such low self-esteem or they've become so desperate that they will settle just for any man just for the sake to show the world that they have a man. Alot of women have fallen for this lie that having a man in their lives makes them complete. Then when women start dating that man, some women fail to look at the red flags (paying attention to their movements, behaviors, etc) that show that the person is not a good man.

[musclesfromsomalia]

@Twoodssax1234567 because u cant choose who u gonna hve babies with its fate ,,,or u dont believe that?