Webcam Love Affair - Will It Work?

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I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy I've never met - only via chat and webcam. I think I'm in love with him but I feel it's slipping away... Please help.

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[radicalfriend]

Pretty interesting video. Thumbs up and subscribed to it.

well.. there's this girl whom i have never really met but can click on pretty well is going to meet up with me soon next month when i graduate, we already plan for holiday trips when she fly over..

I dunno how things will go.. but i admit it does feel scary if there're expectation and it isn't met. Wwe're in a close friendship sort.

Ps: i hvae some personal question too.. but let me know how u feel about this

[DanAndJenn]

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[DanAndJenn]

Thanks for the great comments.

I just wanted to say the we think using the internet to meet people is a great idea. It opens up so many possibilities that were never there before, making it even easier to meet someone that you really click with - friend or lover.

You can get to know that person a little bit, find out if you have anything in common, before deciding to go on an in person date.

Just make sure that you get off line and meet in person as soon as possible when in clicks.

[Synbios459]

Do you think talking online can help build confidence? My friend who is really shy met a girl online that likes games and is really shy like him yet he got to the point where they're dating and he even bought a cell phone to talk with her. Unfortunately he lives in Oklahoma, she lives in Tennessee. But he said he's going to save money to see her.

[DanAndJenn]

I definitely think that talking online can help you build confidence when you meet someone new.

Just be careful and understand that our online personality is different from our face to face personlity. The other person may say things or behave in ways that they would not in face to face communications - especially if they're a little shy.

So even if you fall in love with the 'online' person, make sure to meet them in real life before making any commitments.

[CorkedMagician]

I ran into that issue to. 3 months with a girl who ended up thinking I was someone completely someone different then I was. You can meet people online, if your shy and you need that space to break the ice. But I find you shouldnt get into a relationship persay until you meet and know each other.

[DanAndJenn]

Totally agree - this is a perfect example of her mind filling in the blanks with what she wanted rather than who you really are. It's not good or bad, it just is... That's why it's so critical to meet the real person as soon as possible.

[bassmusic3]

this is very very lame... yes you can fill in the gaps of what you think they are but... people really!!! its ok, if you know who they are... see then via web cam... all that matter is that you care...

[wolfinside]

You really nailed this one (as per your usual) I made the horrible mistake of getting into a long distance online relationship. Simply awful, without human contact trust is hard to find and like J and D said, it is all based on fantasy, not reality. NEVER AGAIN! And yes I feel very stupid about doing it, I was on the rebound from a very hurtful real relationship. Just say NO to online relationships! Make it real, or just move on. Thanks again Jenn and Dan for a great video!

[nikcq1]

I assume that these two have both done an extensive study on internet relationships,or they have psychology degrees... Because if not, then they are just people that are being paid to ramble out their opinions.

But wait!.. what would researchers and psychologist be doing on Youtube?!?! ..... ..... yeah, they probably are cashiers at the local Walmart.

Shows what you two know. lol

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[mApokerface]

hey did it work?

[CristalVera93]

dear dan and jen how do u work on a webcam

[devilzreality93]

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