On Chaser II

In this video I talk about the need for more community involvement by tranny chasers in the trans community

Category:

People & Blogs

Tags:

• transgender
• transsexual
• transwoman
• trans
• woman
• tranny
• chaser
• shemale
• admirer
• transition
• mtf
• ftm

[wolfyPX]

Right. Addressing only my last comment, very simply:

Which is easier for the general public to accept? Manly, bearded men, wearing hooker heals and miniskirts, or passable women, potentially indistiguishable from gg's?

This what I am saying, crossdressers under the umbrella will not gain the the umbrella greater acceptance. But women like you and I can. That is the key. And eventually, given enough time and exposure, even the manly, bearded, miniskirted men might just be accepted.

[icecoldbath]

"crossdressers under the umbrella will not gain the the umbrella greater acceptance. But women like you and I can." - This is exactly the kind of stuff I disagree with. I'd rather hang out with a bearded CD anyday over a hateful bigot like you. You are now banned from commenting on my blog because i'm tired of engaging with you on this or any other issue.

[MidskakurUlvur]

Ashley, I think wolfy has made a point in that; it is a good idea for people to be aware of more diverse gender variants in their own community than just 1 stereotype.

With that said, wolfy is wrong to think that cisgendered people will think better of more conventional gender variants than their unconventional counterparts.

People aren't going to earn us any *points* for coming out because they're pretty, but it's good to show that we are made up of as diverse of a community as any other.

[icecoldbath]

Yes, I know. Thats why I asked the question. The fact that she often (this is a repeat behavior for her) singles out as "bad" trans people the crossdressers or trans women in porn as hurting us is what i'm being critical of.

[wolfyPX]

By being out, we actually serve the rest of the communty by providing the exposure we need to build their tolerance, if not trust among us. As for myself, noone even knows til I tell them. But I insist on telling them because hat I want them to have THIS image in their minds when tthey think of trans-women; instead of that of a manly, unshaven crossdresser, trying to sleep with every guy he can.

Turn their naive world, and perception of us upside down, and have them asking questions.

[icecoldbath]

Whats wrong with "manly" unshaven crossdressers? You are quite the sexist bigot some...no...most of the time.

[bs1de]

I'm straight and I like trans women!

[schildno5]

Girl, you are NOT lying! We need more support from the men who admire us. We must try harder to unify and also make a safe but powerful existence for the transgirls. We have lost too many special people that should be living right now. ^_^

[MrShaneVicious]

@TT1478 I didn't say anyone should be treated like shit.

[TT1478]

@waitingtolive that is sooooooooo true. and you can say NEVER when it comes to this. people always say, "never say never".......but when it comes to straight guys dealing with transgender women, that will NEVER happen.

[TT1478]

@SoCyurious that's the whole truth and NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!

[TT1478]

@MrShaneVicious smh!! so, because i'm not passable, that means i should be treated like shit? i have seen plenty of biological females that have deeper voices than i do and look manlier than me, but i still see them with someone.....why, because they're biological women........but when it comes to us transgender women, it's a big damn deal. smh @ superficial people. looks tend to fade away over time.

[TT1478]

@maitriparamita i wouldn't even give it 10 seconds. another thing that sickens me is that a lot of straight guys are always questioning their sexuality, and i'm like, who gives a.....who cares?!!! and in my experience(s), it's always the latino and black guys, even though i'm not into them like that anymore, especially black guys. don't get me wrong, white guys are like that as well, but most of them have the "who cares" type of attitude, but you still can't win.

[TT1478]

to me, i also don't think the word chaser, when it comes to the tg community is an all around good thing. tg chasers are no good. they don't have any good motives at all when it comes to us transwomen.  ugh!

[TT1478]

...because all these guys want is ONLY a sexual fetish/fantasy for a one night stand. i've seen it with other transwomen and has happened to myself. you try to give these (whether they're bi, gay, and/or straight, but mostly straight guys) a-holes the benefit of the doubt because they come off acting, claiming, and pretending that they "want to get to know you" b.s. when ALL THEY WANT is ONLY/JUST sex. give me a damn break!!!! i am so sick and tired. i'm going to be an old maid. oh well.

[TT1478]

i know i'm 3 years late.......lol. i try not to leave comments when it comes to guys and transgender women because i know how i am when it comes to these so-called guys. i am a pre-op transgender woman that gets disgusted that when i tell a guy that i'm a transsexual (which they can probably tell anyway, but oh well), they feel that just because part of the word sex is in transsexual, then that's all i'm good for, mostly a one night stand......

[nudedood]

Having had 2 LTR with two full time M2F's as pre ops then post op, I can say that 98 percent of tranny-chaser men are pigs. They don't know how to related to a M2F and for the most part, they don't want to relate or educate themselves.

[CoinsOfThin]

I generally agree with what you say, but I feel like at first, you confused gender with sexuality, but I got your point.

5 stars because I can relate as a MTF. I guess it depends on your perspective like you were talking about at 3:50. Personally, I think stealth is the ultimate goal. As a TG, it's hard to be proud of being TG, because it's always about "transition" to the next point.