"Leave the Fairy Tales Up to Disney": #21 The Damage is DONE!!!

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[tochimpara]

Well as the woman from that video, I did it 11 times with the same guy. I am not making excuses, what I did went way too far, even if my man did cheat on me. I have asked peoples opinions, and I like everyone's imput, I am not afraid to take criticism, from anyone. What we do is no one's business, but thanks for all the comments, and thanks to kf for posting the video.

[kevinferere]

@tochimpara well thank you for having the maturity to handle it after the fact and the courage to speak up on it in this video.

[princessagabriella16]

Wow, I would just divorce her. Having another man or woman in their marriage bed is just going to far. If he takes her back, he must have a very forgiving heart.

[kevinferere]

@princessagabriella16 True. There's really nothin much else to say on this situation. lol

[blklacquer]

wait he didn't have the means to cheat he does have a dick right,? he should leave, she wasn't ready for marriage obviously, and he will never be the same..men can forgive but some will never forget..i been with one he still mad. (And I didn't even do all that shit lol)

[kevinferere]

@blklacquer lmaoooo But he does need to leave.

[FatGirlSwag]

Oh no, that sounds like a world of trouble! I know we all make mistakes, but we also have to learn from them. I see maybe doing it once was a mistake, but 11 times? Uh-uh, as a woman. . . I couldn't even forgive myself if I did some sh*t like that. Marriage is supposed to be sacred and about loyalty. If you want to be a trollop or a jezebel, don't get married! Simple as that!

[1prettytoya]

I think the immaturity bell is going off here the loudest...Hey Kev! As always-love it when you're "keepin' it funky!"

[tochimpara]

She seems to have a problem facing reality when she gets hurts and responds to it in the most imature of manners. Life is not about games and marriage is sacred, and both her and her man broke their vows. She did finish with that though, and that in of itself is extremely detrimental to a relationship and both people involved if they make it work will have to know the other person can be trusted eventually. Its a touchy situation, but anything is possible

[tochimpara]

Thanks for all the imput guys, and thanks for posting the vid kf. Obviously I have many of my own issues to work out, and I am not afraid to take criticism. But...what happens is going to be ultimately up to him and I am doing my best to get my life on track and do the things I need to do.  Productively, and not stupidly.

Thanks for the opinions, lively as usual!

[blklacquer]

oh ok..well hell that's still enough practice

[Rooseveltdunn]

it wasn't eleven men she did it eleven times with the same person

[kevinferere]

@blklacquer lol