The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm

We got back from our conference to a stack of Ask Dr Betty questions about how to have a vaginal orgasm. Betty's been answering this same question since 1968. It's all clit all the time whether its direct or indirect. Vaginal penetration enhances clit stim. Forget about all those mysterious spots inside the body.

Category:

Education

Tags:

• Betty Dodson
• Carlin Ross
• sex
• women
• masturbation
• g-spot
• sex ed
• sex education
• orgasms
• clitoris
• vaginal orgasm

[spunkkymunkky]

havent got a vibrator. i guess i will have to sit on the washing machine while its on spin dry

[Its1SPIKE1ass]

"Well this is why i'm telling the story." like duhhh... haha i love you guys keep up the good work

[ImaginarYxGoddesS]

@EllaKathryn While I agree with your support and encouragement of women who haven't achieved vaginal orgasm, you don't have to denounce vaginal orgasms to make these women feel better. There's comfort, then there's comfort with the spread of misinformation. Vaginal orgasms (with clit stimulation) are tooons better than just clitoris orgasms, to me. However, you shouldn't feel bad if you haven't achieved vaginal orgasms yet. Work at it, ladies. :>)

[WrathoftheGoddess]

@EllaKathryn Exactly!

[mrcharles007]

deep vaginal orgasms is the way to go guys. stimulate her AFE zone. (aka deep spot or a-spot) most intense orgasm ever! sex is a game that you learn through experience not listening to some lecture in college or reading a book, or watching porn.

[theeunforgivenn]

lol i love you

[mizakzee]

Wax on, wax off.

Pretty much the same thing.

[SuperBirdii]

i've only ever had vaginal orgasms. i'm all backwards. :P

[SuperSikNasty]

Actually sexual desire should start first with mental desire you feel for your partner, followed by physical foreplay and arousal. Would you like to trick someone into having sex they don't want to have, let's say they don't want to have sex and you keep bugging them until they say, "Okay.. I'm horny now."

[anitasseo]

I´m starting to try againnn to feel new things with vaginal intercourse, even though it´s costing me a lot -after years of feeling this is NOT going to happen-; but I´ve only had clitoris orgasms all my life and I´d like to give it a try and experience it! I feel like the guy I´m with is showing me new ways of trying it, and so I´m giving it another try. There has to be a way!.. Or not? Booh.. :/

Thanks for the great work women!

[EllaKathryn]

To all the women who feel like they are missing out since they can't have "vaginal" orgasms:

You're normal! :D You're not missing out on anything. Don't let other women (who just want to make a competition out of everything) or your partner make you feel bad. If you can orgasm at all, consider yourself lucky. Don't worry about how you do it. And if you're with someone who has an issue with your "inability" to have "vaginal" orgasms, show him this video and teach him a lesson.

[njskate4death]

@Its1SPIKE1ass  lmaoo, she got SMART on her.