Relationship Problems? The Most Important Lesson For Strong Relationships

http://www.StrongMarriageNow.com - Having relationship problems? Marriage Counselor, Dr. Dana Fillmore, teaches the Most Important Lesson that couples need to know. She covers how to think about priorities, how to prevent an affair and how to stay deeply in love. Marriage Counseling Made Easy!

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[DanaFillmorePsyD]

Try listening to her. One of the things that everyone likes is to be heard and understood. If she finds that you're really into "getting" her and supporting her, perhaps she'll want to spend more time talking to you instead of your friend.

[DanaFillmorePsyD]

DevelopingFutures- So glad you found the video valuable! Wishing you years of love and happiness!

[DanaFillmorePsyD]

To the person who asked if the priorities applied to couples who aren't married or don't have kids, the answer is that these priorities apply to any committed relationship.

[DanaFillmorePsyD]

Thanks for the comment. The rationale behind the spouse being ahead of the kids is that the marriage needs to be #1. Marriages that break up don't do the kids any favors. Spouses that aren't on the same page don't help the kids have healthy relationships. The best service you can give your kids is to have a strong, healthy marriage and in order to do that, your marriage and spouse needs to be #1. Hope that helps explain the rationale.

[lokkkness]

This helped a lot, I need to talk to my gf because we don't spend enough time together, I'm still in love but I feel like Im falling out of love slowly, because she doesnt seem to care that much when we spend this much time apart. I hate it, I hate that she thinks only the weekends are good.

[DanaFillmorePsyD]

@lokkkness So glad this helped you! Spending time together makes an incredible difference in keeping a relationship strong.

[Ashleypunkchic2098]

Inbox me plz if you are willing to give me advice ON MT BOY DILEMMA! !! OR if u need help I can help!!!

[RazziaLowne]

@BlackJacketWasp No,sure i would feel dissrespected,neglected etc.But i woudnt be so down about it for to long.I have an instant turn off button for disrespectfull people,thats why.Im always comfortable cause i know that if he would cheat. It woudnt take weeks to get over him..and i feel more comfortable knowing im not goin to have depression for weeks (i been there already,and i've seen at the end that it wasnt neccesary at all .So my mind state and way of thinking are working that way to )

[MrZeedooz]

omg don't even get me started so my school plays basketball and I'm playing and my gf is the cheerleader... so after the game I try to put my arm around her and she's all like NO DONT TOUCH ME! then she goes to her friends hugs them and flirts with them then I feel like shit.... I say nice things and she calls me embarrasing and stupid and an idiot alot... she said she might want to break up because I'm too emotional when she makes me feel like a worthless asshole

[DunComment3012]

This is very inspiring...I learn so much...But my girlf doesnt really appreciate our time together...When I go over to her house...She wont spend her time with me but spend the time watching movie or fb. What should I do? :(

[BlackJacketWasp]

@RazziaLowne you wouldn't care less if he would cheat? Uh, you may want to start working on that. Something tells me that you're detached.

[RazziaLowne]

Im with a man who just cant seem to get off my back with his jealousy, it onley shows me how insecure he is..while he is the one working at clubs day in day out, and i dont get to see him that often..i never have issue with jealousy, cause i woudnt care less if he would cheat..ive already been cheated once, and im kind of immune to it..as for him..he drives me crazy and we are engaged, what makes it harder to seperate..but its nt working and i refuse to get married this way ,any advice please!?!

[MBNxXx301WANT3D]

Me and this girl use to talk alot and now she's talking to one of my friends more than she does with me what should I do?

[TheDezizzle]

My self-esteem. I guess my question is how do fit in time together? Can that time be at home, maybe just talkin in bed for a hour or more?

[TheDezizzle]

My fiancé and I have been fighting an awful lot lately. We have a 9 month old baby in the house and I'm a stay at home mother. He seems to feel that I get to relax all day while he works. While any mother know that's not the case. I'm cleaning chasing a baby and have dinner ready. I feel very under appreciated. Not to mention ignored. He come home at night and spend a hour with the baby then bed. I want to have intimacy to get that connection. But he always seems tired. This is a real blow to