How To Be Confident, Attractive and Self-Assured

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[SylarTheBest]

Hey Larry, this is the 1st vid I've watched from you, you seem like a really nice person!

My question is this: I'm just 17, and I'm not really the most confident person on the planet, but what you say at the end of the video "Be who you are, the right people will show up" it seems hard for me to believe it. I think I have to change to please people, maybe I'm just wanting to rush things up because I'm young and don't have patience? Is what you said really true?

[lhochman]

@SylarTheBest It's the absolute truth. At 17 you're discovering so many things about yourself. And like most teens you've probably been told by very well meaning people how to act and who you're supposed to be. They love you, but they aren't inside your head or your heart. The best way to please the RIGHT people is to continue to let yourself unfold. :)

[AppleFreakish]

Its soo hard to be myself :'(, I am such a shy, quiet person at school cause I don't want to be myself there cause I know I will be judged so im afraid of that :( At home I am crazy wild, happy, laughs a ton, and dances randomly to songs and says random stuff but I think that people will think this is somewhat weird. I so wish I can be myself :(

[lhochman]

@AppleFreakish Who else would you be? See the response I gave Sylar The Best above this one.

[andrew19vato]

@sigurjong what do u mean you cant be yourself? if that is your opinion then fine, but since when can you not be yourself? "ohhh people are gonna laugh me" so fucking what!!

[crandallino]

talk to a therpist....even your star athlete went or is going to a therapist...if you dont have the means-- research....most importantly you have to understand things will change, but you have to make the effort...Everytime you play videogames you could be stuydying or playing a sport or club...I was fat but i changed myself, as have many others..If your seriously contemplating suicide call a hotline if youre too embaressed to go to a therapist, but this life is yours, dont end it

[ProjectFrezee]

Im the fat guy at my school. nobody would hang out with me and Im being myself 100% but still NOBODY likes me, the only thing I do is playing games on my xbox and nobody want's to talk to me I so depressed, and lately my mom told she want'sme out of this house and move over to my dad :( feel like i should take suicide or something:( I just can't handel this :( I don't wanna live anymore...

[glamglitter207]

Be who you are......

[glamglitter207]

Before I was shy because I thought that maybe they would laugh at me and think bad about me but I realize that u just have to b

[sigurjong]

@AppleFreakish You can't be yourself. The whole world is gonna laugh at you once you even try to be yourself and you will be ridiculed like you've never ever experienced before. Make peace with the way things are. I did and I'm a happier man.

[ifinefilmz]

tru saying..



[fuckingthepussyholes]

also to add to this is, everyone doesnt like everyone, it's ok to only be liked by some people and disliked or "not in" with others. If that was the there would be no conflicts or wars or fighting if everyone got along with each other, so to reiterate what the uploader intends on promoting, is be yourself, be comfortable in your own skin, and be confident and assertive whilst being yourself, and you will filter through the people who like you and the one's who you may not naturally get on with

[fuckingthepussyholes]

@AppleFreakish I was and I still am partly the same, its definately best to be yourself, but you have to be confident being that way. That means having a tough skin so you can handle any critisim and also being assertive when anyone challenges or ridicules the way you are as a person. The thing is we are mostly brought up to form a personality that is liked by absolutely everyone or whoever is important to us at the time.

[kokokorina]

Dear Larry, Throughout my life I have had issues with low self confidence and self esteem and unable to stand up for myself, wondering to be an assertive person who could stand for himself.