"Honorable" has now become "The New Black" as it relates to intimate attraction between African-American men & women. The axiom of old, "Nice Guys Finish Last," is taken to entirely new heights of ...
"Honorable" has now become "The New Black" as it relates to intimate attraction between African-American men & women. The axiom of old, "Nice Guys Finish Last," is taken to entirely new heights of meaning in these early days of the 21st century, where "good black men" (who have always been in relatively 'short supply') are now perhaps facing extinction altogether in the Afr-Am community -- due either to their outright rejection by Black American Women & subsequently finding their place of solace in the loving caring arms of Caucasian or other "non-black" women, or because Afr-Am. "boys" are no longer being raised to become potential "good black men," even as Afr-Am. "girls" are no longer being trained (whether via actual instruction or through 'motherly example') to value the "good black man," but rather to view him as weak and undesirable. What can be done to rescue "good black men"? ...Or are they already beyond saving?
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Loved the Smokey the Bear ending there. Only you can prevent forest fires only you. Even if black women did improve their attitudes it may be too late for them. Its a shame but its the facts. Black women fel for the womens rights movement that was meant for "white women" only. The difference is that the white women stayed with their white counterparts after they were given their equal rights but black women thought it was an opportunity for them to show the world who was boss and failed in epic.
just a question... i know a couple of good black men (( I'm just not attracted to them)) should i just wait for them to become attractive and then decided to give em a try ?
I am 25, and I want to marry a black woman so I say. It seems as if I will be waiting until I am 50 before that takes place. I only see black woman going after bad guys and complaining on how good guys are not out there.
I am good looking, in shape, educated and I get more love from Spanish and Asian woman than anything. My own woman don't even acknowledge my presence.
i highly doubt your all of these(( some of these traits i.e. attractiveness are based off of other people's opinions )) but if spanish women are giving you the time of day please don't think your doing us a favor by sticking around.... go be with the one who wants you !! and if a black woman gives you hell about it (esp. someone who didn't pay you any attention before) CALL HER AZZ OUT ON IT !!!!!
The attitude and entitlement syndrome is increasingly found in women of all races. Unfortunately, these problems will never be fixed until the growing epidemic of single motherhood is also. Why? Because it's the highest contributing factor to male underachievement. If there is no hierarchy of male rank, women (who pick men by status) can pick whoever they want, and treat them all as if they were all disposable.
If any man tried to tell a "real" black woman to 'hop on one leg and bark like a dog', she will cuss his assss out! A black woman has always known her place, it is the opinion of 'some' men who thinks that they know a better place for a woman.
My bad, I honestly did not know what you were getting at...Anywayz.... The feminist movement began for a very important reason right? I believe it had something to do with the treatment of women.......by none other than the MAN, albeit a white man but a man in general? I'm sorry, my knowledge of his.story is very vague.
@ReighnStorm I don't agree with u at all. I have tried to do everything right for the black American women (financially stable, faithful, good sex, consistent, loving, caring) I experience consistent rejection. they criticize everything I do and value nothing that I stand for. nor did they want to build a foundation. I'm beat down at this point and I want to try something different. this just my life (not every bodies) but I'm tired of black American women they get on my nerves in relationships.
ReighnStorm I don't agree. I have tried to be the best I could towards black American women (loving, caring, responsible, financially stable, tough) and it still doesn't work because they either criticize my way of doing things or don't appreciate my values or me in general. I know it's not all black women but damn, I'm tired and beat down. my confidence is low at this point in black American women. I need to look elsewhere...
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I am good looking, in shape, educated and I get more love from Spanish and Asian woman than anything. My own woman don't even acknowledge my presence.
I don't agree with u at all. I have tried to do everything right for the black American women (financially stable, faithful, good sex, consistent, loving, caring) I experience consistent rejection. they criticize everything I do and value nothing that I stand for. nor did they want to build a foundation. I'm beat down at this point and I want to try something different. this just my life (not every bodies) but I'm tired of black American women they get on my nerves in relationships.