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Avoid getting ambushed by the ruthless player. Here's how to identify the traits of this predatory species.

To complete this How-To you will need:

Observational skills
Immunity to empty flattery
Healthy suspicion

Step 1: Beware of the stare

Beware of a guy who stares at you for too long. It's a sign of aggression and usually means you're his next conquest.

Step 2: Assess his style

Assess a guy's style for clues. Super-grooming signals he's probably more into himself than you.

Step 3: Pay attention to body language

Pay attention to his body language. If he leans in close to you right away he is staking out his territory.

Tip: A player will bore a hole in you with his eyes while talking, then look away when you respond -- a good sign he's not really listening.

Step 4: Distrust immediate intimacy

Distrust the guy who showers you with compliments or falls for you too quickly. Players use charm and flattery as a way to move in quickly.

Step 5: Look for an ever-present cell phone

Look for an ever-present cell phone in the hand of the player. If he guards his cell phone like a pit bull and doesn't let you use it, he's probably a player.

Tip: The sophisticated player will acknowledge that he has many female "friends" who often call.

Step 6: Be suspicious of unreliability

Be suspicious if the player always calls late, doesn't show up, and constantly offers lame excuses. Look out for a guy who's always busy.

Step 7: Beware of jealousy

Beware of someone who's extremely jealous and possessive, especially early in the relationship. If they don't trust you, it usually means they can't be trusted themselves.

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  • so according to this video.. ALLLL girls are players..

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  • that guy looked like a life size cut out at the beginning lol XD

  • guy who looks at you like that can never get laid either. hes just creepy and evil looking

  • more like how to spot a rapist. somebody who acts like this could never get laid

  • LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

  • this are not the signs for a player o____O this guy seems more like a rapist to me :O

  • if you noticed someone staring at you with a creepy smile, you probably spotted a rapist, not a player :O

  • How come some of these traits aren't in the howcast video on How to be a player.

  • LOL! This guy isnt a player; he's an imposter, was very ugly, used creepy mannerisms and his outfit was a fashion disaster. I hope the God of Game strikes him down.

  • How about how to spot a SLUT!!

  • :20 pedopile stare.... O.o

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