Is My Boyfriend Gay?

Story:
They been together for a year and 1/2 off and on. The boyfriend starts doing funny things like dancing doing the Beyoncé. At first it was cool but now she says he does it a little too much. Then he wants to get a charm bracelet..by her saying its gay he says he will just get money signs on it. Then to top if off they have gay friends and he is very comfortable with them. He sits he talks to them and its all good...but the sister notices he give them "THE EYE".
Plus he tells them their brother is cute..not just cute, but too cute for his girlfriend.

MY ANSWER: Please talk to him up front. Look at him in the eyes and ask him the hard questions.
If your gut tells you something is wrong or aint right...go with your gut.
And yes from what you told me...I think he is.

People what you think? Is her boyfriend gay?
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[kikicreamify]

Damn there are some ignorant black woman here. Trust me, some of you dating that manly man, ya that manly man that don't act gay at all, he be all man, people call him the ladies man. The macho one, the thug, the father of your babies, ya that one, he be gay. trust me, he don't have to have sugar in walk to like suckin on the sugar cane. Okay now! ummm hmmmm. Trust me ladies, I know.

[kingjonnyboy117]

This is incredibly ignorant and playing on stereotypes, there is no clear cut way to know someone's sexuality by looking at there behaviour. Also, not all gay people act the same. This video does nothing but show the poster's ignorance towards the gay culture and should be removed as it is hurtful. I know many gay men who would be considered studs and many straight men who are feminine. Stop stereotyping.

[KaliTP83]

Ask him.

[queenie493]

I am so sick of all the men hooking up with each other. We woman need some love too; soon there will be no more men left; then what are we going to do ladies? I really wish some men will just be real with a woman and let her know "I LIKE MEN IM GAY! Im a victim of a down low man and he showed no signs that he was gay we talked about marriage kids having a family everything you could think a woman would want. And it turned out he was having sex with transexuals while dating me.Im still shock

[takltome]

HE IS GAY!!!!!!!!! charm bracelet really

[alexshortforalex]

Wait, bi? If he were bi, it wouldn't matter, because bisexual guys still like women. That's the "bi" part. It's definitely not the same as being gay.

To the "ignorant" comments: If she were basing her suspicions on him being a little feminine, yeah, it'd be pretty ignorant. HOWEVER, if he's blatantly making eyes at guys AND fits into the gay stereotype, it's not ignorant to wonder if he's gay. It's common sense.

[PLAYDIRTY1000]

LIKE YOU SAID, YOU WOULD ASK HIM IF YOU WERE IN HER SITUATION. WHY DON'T SHE JUST BE A WOMAN AND TAKE A STAND. IF HE IS GAY SHE IS IN A NO WIN SITUATION, BECAUSE IF HE IS PLAYING FOR THE OTHER TEAM...SHE CAN'T COMPETE WITH A MAN. HE SOUND LIKE HE HAS A SWEET TOOTH TO ME, BUT YOUR FRIEND IS WRONG FOR NOT HAVING THIS DISCUSSION WITH HIM SINCE THEY ARE THE ONES IN THE RELATIONSHIP. SOME MEN COULD HAVE FEM WAYS AND NOT BE GAY. WOMEN BECOME VICTIMS OF STD'S WHEN THEY THINK A HARD MAN IS STRAIGHT.

[robertrayeinusa]

It depends on how much she loves him. If she loves him, then stick with it, if it comes out that he is gay, then deal with it at that time & be happy and thankful for the good times they shared together. If he is straight, who's to say they might get in a fight & break up, or they could get married and live happily ever after. Whatever you do, Support whatever he is and love each other, even if you go separate ways, you could have a great friend for life.

[staceymp0wnz]

i think its so funny when girls day such flamers and come on the internet are make threads on forums like "i think my boyfriend is gay :("

[jasmineheaven2]

I see where she is coming from but this video is pretty ignorant. Everyone has something that floats their boat even he may like charm bracelets or is comfortable with other gay people that doesn't mean he is gay. If his girlfriend does feel he is gay then she shouldnt be talkng to anyone but him about it and if she dislikes him based off of her assumptions then she should leave instead of telling her business to the world

[vaustin2]

I had the same feelings about my ex-husband & when I asked he denied it. Well after 4 yrs of marital HELL it came out that he WAS gay. I was devastated. A womans intuition is almost never wrong. My advice 2 her is 4 her 2 listen 2 that little voice in her head. God may be trying 2 warn her. Trust me, that's pain u don't ever want 2 experience. It's been 11 yrs & it still hurts.

[Yogilatino]

Here man us not bi ya he's gay ass fuck.I mean so gay he can sit on a loly pop and know the cloer.oookk and she should grow up and love here self and know that she would never put here self in such a bad moment and know that she is better then that.and that maby it's not time for him to come the fuck up.it when he's found I'm self.and it's ok that you man likes booty from men's just let him go that way you can have a real nice gay that will do you like he should.