Hi, I'm a young female involved with another female.. we have been together for 6 months. I love her so much she's an amzing person and intelligent. Works hard and has a great personality.Well that All changes when she drinks. I'm so unhappy it's killing me to see her like that... she cuts herself and makes me wakes me watch while she does it, she blames everything on me. Her drinkingand her self harm... And when i try and stop her she hits me and gets aggressive. She treats her family the sam
Thank you Marty for sensitively sharing...its difficult, and you made the first step.. I'm a fag like you and I have a drunk BF. He's a social fellow, I am shy. There is an organization called Al Anon to help the family and friends of alcoholics cope. Interestingly, their saying is, "I am powerless over alcohol". Because we are all powerless over the alcoholic's actions in our lives.
@Seanyboy1all I know the feeling. I have no great advice except try to live your life and not let your moms mood and drinking swings make YOU go up and down like a roller coaster. Basically in my experience it does not work to nag your mom or bring up her being a pisshead all the time. Maybe bring it up dramatically once a year and then its up to her. Just don't let her drag you down with her.
im freaking 12 and im mother effing fed up!!! i have to live with my mom whos an achoholic and shes drunk by 10:00 am EVERY DAY!!! ugh anyone please help...
Hello ,Brooklyn n.y. your video is really good I am in the same situation as you. You need to leave him and the dog to save yourself.
You still have another chance your still young Pray and turn ask God for help! but leave a.s. a .p He will really scar you emotionally. You are depressed. email me if you like. You are helping others who feel laone. Please fix the volume its to low.
Leave him. His alcoholism is a deal-breaker and he needs to learn this.
Slowly open fresh bank accounts and seperate yourself financially.
Live is too short and you only get one. There is no dude with a big-beard at the end waiting to pat you on the head for your suffering. There is nothing else. Go on an adventure of a lifetime. You need it.
Hi, I'm a young female involved with another female.. we have been together for 6 months. I love her so much she's an amzing person and intelligent. Works hard and has a great personality.Well that All changes when she drinks. I'm so unhappy it's killing me to see her like that... she cuts herself and makes me wakes me watch while she does it, she blames everything on me. Her drinkingand her self harm... And when i try and stop her she hits me and gets aggressive. She treats her family the sam
likhakhalomzi 2 weeks ago
nope your not speaking in to the receiver.
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Can't hear a thing.
Cccuba 1 month ago
I totally understand. I happen to be "the James" Thanks for the vid. I'm trying to change evil ways. I wish you both the best. Xo
joeagainsttheworld 7 months ago
I understand your pain. living with a verbally abusive drunk is one of the hardest things anyone can do.
wildchld97 10 months ago
Thank you Marty for sensitively sharing...its difficult, and you made the first step.. I'm a fag like you and I have a drunk BF. He's a social fellow, I am shy. There is an organization called Al Anon to help the family and friends of alcoholics cope. Interestingly, their saying is, "I am powerless over alcohol". Because we are all powerless over the alcoholic's actions in our lives.
mikemotorbikeca 1 year ago
@Seanyboy1all I know the feeling. I have no great advice except try to live your life and not let your moms mood and drinking swings make YOU go up and down like a roller coaster. Basically in my experience it does not work to nag your mom or bring up her being a pisshead all the time. Maybe bring it up dramatically once a year and then its up to her. Just don't let her drag you down with her.
forestskog 1 year ago
im freaking 12 and im mother effing fed up!!! i have to live with my mom whos an achoholic and shes drunk by 10:00 am EVERY DAY!!! ugh anyone please help...
Seanyboy1all 1 year ago
Hello ,Brooklyn n.y. your video is really good I am in the same situation as you. You need to leave him and the dog to save yourself.
You still have another chance your still young Pray and turn ask God for help! but leave a.s. a .p He will really scar you emotionally. You are depressed. email me if you like. You are helping others who feel laone. Please fix the volume its to low.
happyiswhathappydoes 1 year ago
Leave him. His alcoholism is a deal-breaker and he needs to learn this.
Slowly open fresh bank accounts and seperate yourself financially.
Live is too short and you only get one. There is no dude with a big-beard at the end waiting to pat you on the head for your suffering. There is nothing else. Go on an adventure of a lifetime. You need it.
aphasia99 1 year ago
My husband is an alcoholic, they are just unbearable to live with most of the time. I feel your pain
Angelhaven95 1 year ago