Caroline Myss Lecture Why People Don't Heal Excerpt
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The simple realization that holding on to upsets, disappointments, and acts of unkindness paid to oneself is a misguided mechanism for preventing more pain and disappointment from showing its presence in one’s life currently, for the purpose of holding off “change” is indescribable. Holding on to the pain of the past is a way of stopping more pain from coming toward us…amazing stuff…thank you!
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I agree with much of what she said; however, I don't think that not forgiving someone slows your life down. It definitely gets stored as negative energy and such, but claim that your life will not move forward is a bit of stretch. I've not forgiven people and still had much change occur in my life. But the overall message was good.
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What a beautiful story!!!!
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This is brilliant. I would like to add my own perspective and say that a lot of us HAVE got to the point in our development where we CAN choose the speed of change on purpose. Buddha did it by sitting under a tree, Jesus did it by hanging out in some desert... the 40 day duration seems to be about right from my own experience. Its enough time to turn your whole life upside down and to emerge with ones positive and creative energy being dominant.
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So eloquent and true! Caroline always inspires me.
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@ElaetiaPhyn Gee, will there be any charge for that lecture? I didn't question the validity of the message, I was questioning the details of the events. So, do I receive a reply with corroborating evidence, of which I have since found, BTW? Nooo. Instead I receive a reply that uses the word you, or a derivative, twelve times! What might that tell us about Ego? Yours I mean. Can't tolerate your beliefs being questioned? If we practiced more tolerance, we may not need to forgive so often. ;-)
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@azul8811 Get out of your Ego ( - explains your defensiveness to gain attention to your comments). If you don't understand what that means, you will not understand the story. Therefore you cannot open your mind to the possibility of its Truth - which may be deeper than you can comprehend at this point in your life. (Nothing wrong with that.) What if you stopped for a moment, let yourself believe the story. What then? Otherwise, move on to what does speak truth to you.
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@ElaetiaPhyn Sorry, but I don't quite understand what you are suggesting. In my post, I said that the overall message might certainly be vaIid, but I found this particular tale to be quite a stretch. So, what exactly do I have to "keep trying" at? Keep trying to believe that this tale is true? Thank you.
In the past, I thought people had to apologise sincerely before I could forgive them. The result was years of self-inflicted misery.
I could have forgiven them immediately and saved myself a lot of time.
0504dj 2 years ago 13
brilliant woman
excellent story
she always knows how to explain things, make people understand..shes a gift from god
SingingAphrodite 3 years ago 11