The Wife & The Mistress

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Shay Your Date Diva answers an email from a DIVA who is sharing her married man. Part 2

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[innovativethinkin]

Great advice and so true. I wish you would do a video (if u haven't already) on dating a man who claims to be separated. I feel that it's wrong and the man should be divorced before going into a relationship w/ him. I know a lot of women who think it's okay but end up w/ a broken heart b/c he reconciled w/ his wife. What do you think diva?

[lovein30days]

@innovativethinkin I agree that she should leave him alone unless he really loves you and he has been separated for years and filed for divorce and has already established a life with out his soon to be ex-wife. If they are newly separated and absolutely NO papers have been filed, then don't even think about it.

[carmenjones411]

these comments sadden me. Why are the men NEVER HELD ACCOUNTABLE!? They are the one's cheating!

[keta4332]

@innovativethinkin

[keta4332]

@innovativethinkin

i feel a person should be divorced if you are going to date the person. if a man told me: i am separated. i would run in the opposite direction. being separated is still married, in my eyes.

[draksoul]

I can never understand why women love married men. It's not right, its dirty, and its sinful to try and make a move. What really gets me going is that, The Women DON'T CARE!! Now if it were them being on the married in with their man and a woman decides to attempt to take him, THERE'S A PROBLEM!! What is wrong with people these days? There's hatred and no trust passing along (Like Women don't like men, Men don't like women, women don't like women, and/or men don't like men.) Its crazy, Mrs.Shay.

[yumyaw]

would you follow me back...ive been following you on twitter for a month now and have asked for you to follow me back...follow me @yumyaw

[iguillo]

Interestingly Shay, I know exactly of a situation in which the wife DID know that the husband was going to his other woman's house, spending the night, etc....... and she allowed it...........even encouraged it. It's still adultery but actually in this situation its polygamy because all three parties knew what was going on. The husband had his cake and ate it too and both of the women were having to share him. What do you think of that kind of situation?

[Devine5188]

A man needs to deal with his own issues he needs to be a man. Yeah he might really love his wife but that doesn't mean anything. A lot of the time they don't know what they want and they may not even be ready for it. Sometimes humans rely too much on their feelings and feelings lie all the time. He may not want to be lonely or start over men are super needy. I would just leave him alone for good there are too many important things to deal with in life than his insecurities and cheating.

[ttdean]

You look so pretty and put on a few love pounds!