Is Marriage For White People? Is this the start of the END of the Black Race?

Why cant black women have black men "put a ring on it?" Why are we being told that if you want to get married you better date outside of your race because all the black men are either in jail, uneducated or on the downlow? Why are we accepting this as black women. I am black and I want a black man so I can get married and have BLACK babies! All of the sudden this is a problem?

For background info read the following articles to understand where I am coming from :

http://www.chicagonow.com/such-is-life/2011/10/is-marriage-for-white-people/

and

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/03/25/AR20060325000...

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[SuperKarabash1]

Since you want a big stron man, why don't you get a couple of parking tickets, go down to the courthouse to pay them in person, and strke up a conversation with a good looking cop?

[JessicaLaShawn]

@SuperKarabash1 LOL no thank you on the parking tickets but if I see a cop Im not afraid to holla and for the most part they arent either.

[cpott23]

Is your problem finding a decent black guy or finding a decent black guy who fits all of your other superficial criteria? Like in your video you want a big black man. 300lbs, built like an athlete. Etc. But yet, also smart and successful? That doesn't usually go together. Would you even recognize a good successful man if he was right in front of your face? If he didn't meet your physical specifications. Maybe you should try dating online and talking to normal looking black guys who are employed.

[JessicaLaShawn]

@cpott23 I know of a lot of good quality black men. Ive dated a few but for some reason many black men do not want to get married. They feel as if it is unnecessary and isnt worth it for them. Ive done online dating... Im dating someone now that I met online. That isnt the problem....and I am not hell bent on a man thats 6'6 or 300 pounds. I dont care about all of that as long as you love God, family and self with good communication skills and an appreciation for my time we can roll.

[Natsukashii3]

To start you can stop stressing over "all the black men are either in jail, uneducated or on the downlow?" bc that's just not true :) From what I can see many men actually feel they hav nothing to gain from marriage. Also what will you gain from it? There are blk men in college, and you may hav to find one that is less attractive than u prefer, bc average men might want to lock u down :P lol. continued...

[JessicaLaShawn]

@Natsukashii3 Again, I dont care about all of that. I NEVER said I wanted a pretty boy that everyone falls head over heels for because they are SO FINE. I dont care about all of that as long as I like you.

[AnabolicMutant]

The only major difference between any of us as a whole is that some are believers and some are infidels unto their lord..

I am not a polytheist nor an atheist nor an agnostic nor a theist..

I am a muslim by conversion الحمدلله ....

[AnabolicMutant]

Well.. just promise me this.. when that tanned white man who weighs in at around 140kg with near to no body fat and stands at around 6' tall gives you even that little inkling that he is a good man and he is interested in you... stick to your word here and snatch him up as your own!! MARRY HIM!! Make the man happy!!

And throw the big race thing out of the window.. i would have thought people would have just moved on from this ancient stupidity by now!! We are all ONE BLOOD!!

[AnabolicMutant]

BTW, i think you might actually end up marrying a white man who deeply loves you and whom you can easily deeply love for the rest of your lives together and you will have beautiful coffee coloured children.. but.. allah knows best.. you might even find that black man you are looking for, but i would suggest he is in africa and not here.. but what would i know.. i'm just a white lump of muscle.. lol..

[AnabolicMutant]

"It may be that you hate something that is good for you, and it may be that you love something that is bad for you.." (qur'aan)

The qur'aan commands us towards correct guidance in life and in the above translation of a part of a verse of the qur'aan we see the almighty is telling us about some of our attributes we must overcome if we wish to be of the successful ones.. and true success is in the afterlife!

[AnabolicMutant]

As long as it is black people themselves (in general) who are labeling themselves and each other in this way and allowing themselves by their own free volition to become subject to and followers of the rap industry then these problems will continue and will even escalate - in my opinion. Feel free to disagree if you want, but remember.. the truth is often displeasing to the desires!

[AnabolicMutant]

i know it sounds quite a superficial point, but one point i think i would like to contribute here is this:

DESTROY the rap industry and you MIGHT just start something off with regards to cleaning up peoples' hearts, minds and actions..

Labeling poems about crime and its harvestings (and in a manner that can truthfully only be said to be promoting such crime) as "black culture" is tantamount to labeling all such crime itself as "black culture"..

[AnabolicMutant]

i like your video.. cool.. i get your points because i also speak about these issues, as i am very politically motivated in the discourse of my speech more often than not (do you get the specific implications here?)..

[myseramicsims]

go to asian guys, they are also in ur position black women and asian guys are the ones that are out casts these days, and asian guys are the shit! they are sucessful...

[dunk602]

@LISTENtotheMANofGOD WoW!! This is deeep!

[Zebred2001]

Intelligent, dark-skinned, caring, level-headed and pretty. Pity you don't like White guys. In the same circumstances I'd put a ring on it. Can't help you find the right guy though. However if you need to have children go for artificial insemination. For God's sake don't settle for some thug. You look and sound way too good for that kind of comedown.