Advice: My Husband Checks Out Other Women

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[cybercab]

I'd have to disagree. I'm a dude, but even I would say there is no excuse for men acting like this. The speaker is blaming the girl! Her only mistake might be that she picked a loser. A true man loves his wife and is faithful in intent and action. When we lower the standards to allow men to act like this then you can pretty much guess what the results will be.

[tjackson26]

here's the bottom line to all the back and forth comments. men will look regardless of how beautiful, attractive, and sexy u r. it is a man thing, deal with. same applies to women, we look if a guy is nice, neat and handsome. (ladies dont even try it) but there is a thing called respect, its 1 thing to look while ur mate is around, its another to snatch ur neck around and stare like DAAAaaaaaammmn!!!! that is a complete lack of respect toward ur girl or man.

[94an]

@cybercab Agreed on that!

[smokes2006]

Just because this lady has a PHD does not make her intelligent. Get up and leave the scene if your husband/fiancee/boyfriend is ogling other women right in front of you. Better yet, dump the loser. No woman needs to put up with that type of behavior when they are out in public with their significant other. It shows a total lack of respect for their partner.

[noworiesdee]

This woman's response if totally irresponsible to making a man responsible for his juvenile behavior.

[tjackson26]

@Meekzor

Wow are u still here?!!! Go sell ur one sided, sexiest, feminist, I am woman hear me roar like a little kitten, burn your training bra at the end of a stick thoughts to someone who really cares to hear ur debate because; we, my friend, are done.

Go get some dick or pussy, which ever suites u, I don't discriminate, I sell them both ; )

[snaildragon]

@tjackson26

I believe looking lustfully at people other than one's partner is always disrespectful regardless of how obvious a person is about it, or whether the partner is present. Saying "it is a man thing, deal with.[sic]" is a sexist statement. I know men who are not like that, and I believe women have every right to be upset when their partners cheat on them by having lustful thoughts about other women.

[tjackson26]

@Meekzor

Let's end this bullshit

(Ogle): 1: to look at amorously, flirtatiously, or impertinently.

2: to eye; look or stare at.

(Look): 1: to turn one's eyes toward something or in some direction in order to see

2: to glance or gaze in a manner specified

3: to use one's sight or vision in seeking, searching, examining, watching, etc.

My point has been proven, Now I am finish with u. Go find somebody else to bother, but I guess in ur terms that would translate to harassment.

It's really been fun

[tjackson26]

@Meekzor

I see u type of bitch that like to put words in other peoples mouth and I didn't mention anything about oogling I said looked/glimpse, there is a huge difference. Use a damn dictionary, it will help u with some of the meanings of the words that u r using because I see u r living in bliss. (that is just me saying that u r ignorant, just in case u don't get it, like my original comment).

OOOH P.S. I did spread my STD to u, because u r my whore.

[tjackson26]

@Meekzor

Or maybe u are the only one that is the moron and narrow minded. If understanding natural attraction makes me narrow minded, I will be that. If you go back to the original comment. Your mate can be the most attractive woman or man in the world but it is human nature for a person to look. You can try to deny biology, anatomy and physiology but it is "human nature" . I don't care whether u respond to this or not, but in the end, it is what it is. Now go get laid, it seems like u need it.

[tjackson26]

@Meekzor

and u obviously can't read. Not at any point did I say "ALL" men or women, this a generalization of both men and women and the fact; that it is human nature for us to look or glimpse at someone that is attractive. There is a fine line between someone that catches a person attention for a couple of seconds vs being disrespectful. so if that makes me narrow minded, then ur response makes u a complete idiot. Now do u agree with that? (Let me answer that for u) of course u dont.