Muslimah Perspective: Finding a Second wife for your Husband

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[xhezeleyesx]

Masha'Allah this is a very good video btw,, very informative! i soo didnt know that each marriage was like a separate entity, i thought everyone had to be cooped up in the same house lolz

[salamsabee]

@xhezeleyesx

NO YOU DO NOT SIS! but some will tell you other wise so that the brother can save money. Don't fall for it.

[truegemmie]

Excellent vid Sis!

[xhezeleyesx]

@salamsabee cont.... also, please verify and double check the info i have given you in case it is wrong, since im not a scholar or anything, and would hate to pass on wrong information! jazakillah khair :)

[xhezeleyesx]

@salamsabee continued.... they believed that placing a ring over that vein will protect their marriage/love from harm...which is shirk because only Allah swt can do that. Also, because its a chrisrian tradition we are advised to stay away from it, to distinguish ourselves as muslims Insha'Allah. i hope this has been helpful Insha'Allah; if i made any mistakes, they were from my nafs or the shaitaan, and anything correct that i said is from Allah swt.

[xhezeleyesx]

@salamsabee Asalamu alaikum sister, as far as i've heard, some people say its haraam or best to stay away from them because its a old christian-invented tradition in which the groom would take the ring and place it near the bride's thumb, then forefinger, then middle finger, saying ''in the name of the father, the son, and the holy spirit'', and then finally placing it on the ring finger because the ring finger contains a vein which is directly connected to the heart, and they believe (cont.)

[salamsabee]

@americanmuslimgirl

They have videos about how wedding rings are haram. I personally feel its just an attack on the western way of life. The sad part is that some muslims are going to believe this mess and try to spread the message to others before they do their own research. From what I have been looking at since last night, a wedding ring is not HARAM!so silly!

[salamsabee]

@americanmuslimgirl

People thumbedit down because they either hate muslims or they have pushed their husbands into marrying another sister so they can get a break. Nothimg wrong with that, but be 100% honest why you would like that sister to marry your husband. Put everything out on the table so that the sister knows exactly what she is walking into. Most sisters its because they want to do other things and do not have enough time and need another sister to help out.

[salamsabee]

@americanmuslimgirl

Thank you! that the words I was looking for. may ALLAH bless you for the the info.

[samihah1976]

I so agree with you, and see where your coming from. I've seen that happen so many times. May Allah Protect that sister from their fitnah. AMEEN!!!!