#4 gender queer/genderless-ness invisibility

Rambling about the invisibility of those that do not identify on either side of the gender binary.

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• boi
• queer
• gender
• theory
• lgbtq

[fartje0512]

I feel just like you! Its SO confusing..

I hate feminine clothes, but I wear them, cause other people will laugh at me when I wear manclothing...

Its confusing, can you help me?

[jase39xx]

@fartje0512 I use to dress like I thought I was "suppose" to dress mainly to fit in. I later released that I felt more comfortable dressing how I felt comfortable, not how I thought I would make others comfortable. When you do things that make you feel confident and good about yourself, you won't even care if others laugh.

[otursdag]

love this. awesome video. i feel just the same genderless way. and you are pretty as fuck.

[jase39xx]

@otursdag :) Awww thanks!

[polinkik]

hey thats an awesome video! totally agree on how its impossible to get someone to understand the idea that you dont have to feel either male OR female, there are heaps of other options!

[jase39xx]

@polinkik :) great! Thanks for watching!

[flowerpot4147]

i agree with you, and genderless bathrooms are the shit!

[musicalmeal]

you just put words to my feelings. great vid.

[nonsensespace]

hey this is such a good way to explain it, many people needs to watch this

[Lfcramer]

I have a few questions I was hoping you could be so kind to answer: If you get in a relationship when you do not identify with your biological gender - does it feel unnatural to be called girlfriend? If so, what are you comfortable with being called?

Do you also have attractions to both genders? Did you initially identify as lesbian or pansexual?

It's a good video to explain how someone who identifies as genderless sees the world and feels. :)

[acidcupcake77]

it's like you were talking words from me.. I feel exactly this way. Thank you for posting this

[shonengurl]

For the first time I feel like someone has related to me and my issues... it's kind of terrifying.

[kissandtell39]

Your Awesome.

[xiahnsaya1004]

i totally feel you, i hate bras but i wear sport bras because i don't feel like i want to bind or do all that stuff. I love boxers and usually i wear both girl and guy clothes but people call me ma am and ( i hate it) one because I am not past 30 and because I don't feel all female even if I look female outside. Inside i am neither because parts of me mentally feel male the other parts feel female because of how i look outside.

[IckeExisterande]

I feel so enlightened right now.

For years I've thought that I'm more than just a female or something else, "neutral" or so to say. So I though that since I don't feel like a female , I must be a male. but I didn't "feel" like a male.

After seeing this, it all made sense. I am so happy now that I know that I am not the only one feeling like this!

This video helped me alot :')

[TheFreak137]

Idk, I guess it sounds really complicated to other people but to me it's the only thing that makes any sense. I guess that's how the world is though, I don't understand what it feels like to be binary & binary people don't understand what it feels like to be non-binary. Also with the pronouns & bathroom thing. I honestly don't care about pronouns but I really wish we had unisex bathrooms here. I live in the bible belt though so I doubt that's going to happen anytime soon. =P

[TheFreak137]

I usually just say I'm queer, both in gender & sexuality, lol. If I ever have to say anything else I say I'm genderqueer & pansexual. Because for me it's the only thing that works. In my brain it's like there really isn't any gender. There's masculinity & femininity. Some people are more feminine while others are more masculine & then there's those like myself who are a bit of both. Since I'm attracted to people & not their anatomy I'm not bisexual, homosexual or heterosexual.

[padman702]

*waives hand* sounds a lot like me except i will be taking t. Welcome to the club there are a few of us GNC people out there. there is a little group where i live called "Out Of The Gender Box" Anyways..... As you said i do not really have a sexuality because i am genderless. I just say, I like people or queer