How to reject tactfully after a first date

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How to reject tactfully after a first date

Don't you hate it when he says he'll call, but never does? Or maybe you're guilty of just fading away after one date. Stefan Springman, host of VH1's Can't Get A Date, explains the real rules of rejection, and how it ought to be done.

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[sircesare]

i liked his views but i think she was taking it personally :)

[SpunkyXeE]

Was that an awkward conversation or was it just me?

[thelaurels13]

I get the feeling this bitch is single!

[Cap285]

Fuck this old hag. Women are completely cruel when it comes to rejection. Some of them do it for sport. Another female double standard.

[BobbyDelRiv]

No Lisa Birnbaum! YOU make the search for romance tough by your being so picky.

[BobbyDelRiv]

Those that unfairly reject others are abusers and make no mistake about it. Those who reject others for STUPIDFICIAL reasons (looks/height/non macho or non ultra feminine appearance) are abusers. Those who lie to others looking for another to flatter he or she before rejecting the duped person is an abuser too. We must recognize the abuser no matter how physically "attractive" the abuser may be.............We must shine the light on the abuser. We must call them on their abuse.

[BobbyDelRiv]

@SpikeLanta I'm a rough rugged guy with my friends. We like to belt each other in the arm and wrestle each other and tell hard core filthy jokes and look at nasty porno and go out and meet low class hot babes. At least I tell that b.s. to the women who only want to be "good friends" and then I ask them if they are ready for my kind of friendship. Also they dare not use me as a "girlfriend" by telling me their troubles with the guys who THEY like. Just friends is an excuse calling for my nasty

[BobbyDelRiv]

Us veterans of rejection know when we are being rejected for superficial reasons and we can see right through all the "soft" and the "tactful" excuses because we've heard them all before............How do you reject in the "kindest" way? Well YOU DON'T REJECT! Instead go beyond the "chemistry" and give a good person a chance. How many times has the "chemistry" feeling misled you in the past? Why keep doing the same thing when all it has done for you was brought you misery? Marry the nice guy!

[BobbyDelRiv]

Rejection hurts! Teach others to NOT reject anyone for STUPIDFICIAL reasons such as looks/height/macho. Teach them that attraction grows. Teach that rejecting after a first meeting for no chemistry is stupid because chemistry grows. Show them how to find the attractiveness in all member of the opposite sex.

[SpikeLanta]

@Globez123 i hate it when women say "let's just be friends". I made a promise to myself that the next woman that says that to me, I'm not even going to talk to her anymore and just ignore her. If she complains about how I never talk to her anymore, I'm just going to say "Go find someone else to be "Just friends" with. Leave me alone!"

[injaley]

@SpunkyXeE

Totally, it appeared as if she used him as a substitute for all the guys that left her and never called her again and left her w/o ...closure...very awkward...