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Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse - click on this link: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq1.html

The narcissist is able to tell right from wrong and to distinguish between good and evil. In the pursuit of his interests and causes, he sometimes chooses to act wickedly. Lacking empathy, the narcissist is rarely remorseful. Because he feels entitled, exploiting others is second nature. The narcissist abuses others absent-mindedly, off-handedly, as a matter of fact. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 2 DVDs with 12 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)

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  • @EternalFuu they are, you need to experience it to see how bad it is.........ppl cant believe that another wld be that evil, hahahahaha ya i have experienced it for 28 yrs.

  • Narcissists abuse out of envy and insecurity. They are emotionally shallow (in so far as they have emotions at all) and will go to elaborate lengths to prop up their self image. The wellbeing of others threatens their charade and they will go to any lengths to sadistically sabotage people's lives, all the while scape-goating and evading responsibility. Being as how they have no love or empathy the only thing that could keep them in check is fear of retaliation and harm inflicted upon them.

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  • Narcissists tend to be VERY evil when cornered, even the laughable ones. A good example of this would be Gilderoy Lockhart in the Harry Potter series. If all narcissists met the same sticky end, it would truly be for the greater good.

  • I love the face expression on this vid (profile)

  • @Sorakeyblademaster37 Yes, a narcissist nearly drove me crazy because I was trying to understand them! The best advice someone gave me was "don't study them." Understanding them in an objective, academic way is fine, especially before you ever have to deal with one. But trying to empathize, to reconcile human emotion with their behavior, can hurt you psychologically (if you are the victim).

  • @dutytocareforothers I'm sorry you had to go through that too. :( And I agree; Narcissists are far more common than we think and the state of the world has a lot to say for that.

  • Also something I've been wondering is if Narcissists and socios can even be considered humans at all? Humans feel attachment and love for each other that goes beyond survival instincts and operates in concepts of morality. A N/socio though is utterly devoid of ANY compassion or human love. Even ANIMALS such as gorillas and wolves are capable of caring about each other. Narcissist can NOT feel love at all. So I don't think an N or a socio could be considered human or animal... They are monsters.

  • Yes I agree. Both socios aand Narcissists are STUNNINGLY evil, to the extent that it really DOES defy reason itself. With my malignant narcissist, one time I tried to honestly wrap my mind around him, and the only reaosn I didn't end up screaming from it is because I stopped thinking about it. Trying to understand a narcissist in "normal" terms is like trying to use regular science to explain an Eldritch Abomination. Though "evil" is certainly the best term we have to describe them right now.

  • @Saraswati0183 destructive is a word for nihilist psychopaths, Most narcissists and sociopaths know how to maintain composure.

  • @MsDanny444 Haha! that is the most ignorant thing ive ever heard, Are we evil? Or are you people too emotional and ignorant.

    The norms thumbed up the most ignorant comment, Thats not new.

  • I believe we do need new words and new language for this. The word "evil" just doesn't work. It is very telling, that there is no word to describe it--it seems that abuse of any sort just silences people--the victims, and the allowers, all--and the silence serves the purposes of the abusers. It is words which help people break the silence and heal. Now, how can we find a word....DESTRUCTIVE, maybe?

  • @LoserMillionaire ya but just because they hurt or I hurt gives us no right to EVER abuse another no matter what.

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