Texting too much? Sabotaging your dating life? How to break the pattern.

Sometimes ladies turn into psychos... This is why and how to learn how to act and react sane and succeed in love.

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Howto & Style

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• dating
• love
• relationship
• text
• psycho
• boyfriend
• crazy
• difference men women

[LittleMizzNutcaSe]

Okay I have a possible video topic =] Twice in a row now I have been through situations when I'm talking to/dating a guy & everything goes great for a while, I have no worries/insecurities about how the relationship is going. We have fun & everything. But then about 2 months or so into said relationship I become honest about how I feel & then sometime after that...poof they're gone. They suddenly become "too busy" & disappear without so much as a goodbye. Why could this be? Am I that scary? lol

[carolinlovecoach]

@LittleMizzNutcaSe so... do you become honest or insecure...? What is the reason you suddenly need to "talk", and what is the reason you have not told them what you feel before? Maybe you are sending the wrong signals, hence attracting guys who are not into relationships, or maybe your energy changes and yes, they get a little scared. Committment is scary if you make it sound that way :)

[LittleMizzNutcaSe]

@carolinlovecoach I believe it's honesty, not insecurity, because I become comfortable enough with them to just be vulnerable and wear my heart on my sleeve so to speak, hoping they return the favor. They knew more or less how I felt before, but at some point I choose to be even more open about how I feel. And they kinda do return the favor but with their disappearing act and whatnot I guess it wasn't meant? Maybe I am sending the wrong signals though, who knows. Commitment fear could be it too.

[carolinlovecoach]

@LittleMizzNutcaSe our choice of word concerns me. Vulnerable... it is a word filled with fear and anxiety. I don´t buy the committment fear, but I do think your energy shifts when you are "hoping they return the favor". After a while together it should be about giving, about sensing each other and being happy about opening up. Write yourself a letter about how you feel in that moment. At least 500 words.

[longbluefingers]

ooooh! right on time!  thank you)

[carolinlovecoach]

@longbluefingers You are learning for another, more important time :)

[beatrixtarantino]

thanks so much for your videos, There're so great. . I'm learning a lot about myself and my behaviour.

[HollerAtSnowWhite]

Amazing video!

[VictoriasRoses]

Thank you!!!!!! Oh my goodness you really helped me out!

[ujoo0814]

@carolinlovecoach sorry for replying so late.. the issue is that people stare at that couple when they go out they're very happy when they're in their own lil world .. the girl who's good looking is in a dilemma she's very much attracted to his personality but not attracted to his looks. she loves him unconditionally but his looks come in the way so she's in a very confusing stage. she can not live without him though but she's very concerned about the people around her staring at them.

[TheACE2U]

@LittleMizzNutcaSe wow! that happens to me too, I am a man but girls do that to me! don't feel alone!

[carolinlovecoach]

@ujoo0814 Interesting issue. What is the real issue behind it... ? Is one person getting insecure, jealous or worried? Is the problem between them or from other people?