Loving yourself. Being Loved. Loving others.

Many are messaging and commenting me wondering weather i am aware that there are people who "hate themselves" people who "dislike themselves" people who are "incapable of loving themselves."
i am aware of those who "aren't capable of loving themselves."
But truthfully, i don't believe it is possible to be "incapable of loving yourself", with a certain mind set, i believe it is possible.
This comes along with two different big things:
Choices, and Believing
Believing:
Like i said in the video, someone needs to believe that they are completely lovable, in the eyes of the universe, and MOST MOST IMPORTANTLY, THE EYES OF THEMSELVES, just the way they are. Believe this, understand it.
Fear of yourself or of things around you, are manipulated by talk, by sight..
Even if you tell yourself over and over again, "i am lovable and capable. I am lovable just the way i am".. soon these words, becomes thoughts, they become believes, they harmonize you as a person. Be open to this, it can change so much. Don't change the way you look, the way you talk, the way you act, the way you ARE, for the acceptance of another. my favorite quote: BETRAYAL OF YOURSELF, IN FEAR TO BETRAY ANOTHER, IS BETRAYAL NONE THE LESS. Do not betray yourself and change yourself for others. In the long run, you are left with yourself in the end. Learn to appreciate what you have, love your "flaws" LOVE YOURSELF.
CHOICES:
Certain choices a person can make, might lead them to why they "don't love themselves."
There is always a choice, a choice for every single thing out there. and sometimes, a person will make a decision, which will lead to something else, which will leave them unhappy with themselves.
If a person makes a choice that ends them up feeling truthfully happy and strong, and they are smart about the choice they made, it will most likely leave them with confidence and love for themselves.
*Every choice a person makes is their own responsibility, and their choice will lead them toward something that reflects a certain emotion in them, weather it is love, or hate.
Something that could be the smallest little issue that a person is insecure about, might lead them to make a regretful decision..which leads to another problem, which leaves them feeling insecure and "incapable of loving themselves."

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[AXharoth]

great subed

[Rocio7166]

Awesome!

[TheAngelLoveHeart]

You inspire me...Thank you <3

[sswwiinnccee]

Keep up the good work.You're clearly inspired from somewhere beyond yourself because you're far wiser than a young girl should be but it's a good thing so please keep inspiring others.Thank you x x

[cocobongo43]

Good advice. Cute girl. !

[ngoc4monkey]

Wonderful!`Thanks so much!`

[InkSketchedOceans]

I love this. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I need to read this book....

Thank you.

[Aloria]

Thank you for posting this.

Perhaps you should mention that punishing yourself for your "flaws" or "mistakes" is also pointless, because it doesn't hurt anyone but you, and doesn't make the mistake un-happen, or the flaw go away.

[BossLady614]

i have that shirt haha

[Marizzz125Swed]

You are so smart! I have never seen anyone smarter than you :) You help me so much!!!!!! I have no self confidence, I have acne, and i hate how I look! hope you do moore videos soon beacuse i want moore tips , advice and help // from a 13 year old girl