When people judge you

I am so sick of people in life thinking they KNOW me, and putting words in my mouth. No one can judge me unless they know my story. People don't have the decency to ASK me questions, they just ASSUME. I hate it, in any situation - in everyday life or online. I am not going to put up with it anymore, from anyone.

Sorry this video is 17 minutes, but I had a LOT to say and it means a lot to me that you watch it...

Thanks for subscribing, I really do appreciate all I have been given and blessed with - I have met so many amazing people here on youtube, it would be impossible for me to begin to list you all.

But in the chance that you don't like what I have to say or the way I live my life, then leave. I am not forcing you to watch my videos. I am not here to gain channel views or 5 star ratings or subscribers. I am here to talk, and to meet people who I can relate to and help. That's all.

I don't need any praise, or thanks, or fans, or subscribers. I don't need anything at all... But when someone crosses the line to the point of JUDGING me and trying to insult my character, then that's NOT okay with me at all. And I am going to speak out.

If you feel you have been judged online or in person... I urge you to SPEAK UP and SPEAK OUT. It feels much better when you do :)

SHOUT OUT to the person who inspired this video, I am sure you are gloating right now, knowing you riled me up enough to warrant such a reaction, and a video about it no less!

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• depression
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[ghostbird92]

it's funny. when i scrolled through your videos and just saw their titles, i couldn't help but think, "she's probably just someone whining about things with nothing insightful to say" but if people did see your videos, they really would see (given that theyre not completely ignorant and close-minded) that you're smart, reasonable, and pretty deep...a lot deeper than the sort of people who don't even try to see things from other point of views anyway.

[xsullengirlx]

@ghostbird92 Thank you very much, I know this title in particular is quite whiny and petty lol, but I do appreciate the comment and compliment, I do hope that people take the time to open their minds and I try to give a different perspective. :) Take care.

[Redmilitiageneral]

my pet peeve is when people use the word pet peeve.

[xsullengirlx]

Do you have a better word for it? lol

[eviecow]

r u married

[xsullengirlx]

no... why?

[pancakeninja22]

this is kimda random but you're really pretty ^_^

[chichibooty1]

U=Tube.......there's always a critic! One apple ruins the whole apple basket! You are smart, do not defend yourself, they are just ignorant! no one knows you but YOU! Keep chatting girl! ROCK ON!!! HE love you just the way you are! They are hurting you.....I can tell. JUST LET IT GO!! BE YOU! BEAUTIFUL ONE!

[chichibooty1]

U=Tube.......there's always a critic! One apple ruins the whole apple basket! You are smart, do not defend yourself, they are just ignorant! no one knows you but YOU! Keep chatting girl! ROCK ON!!! HE love you just the way you are! They are hurting you.....I can tell. JUST LET IT GO!! BE YOU! BEAUTIFUL ONE!

[bobyard123]

what is a pet peeve

[doyce1000]

your a pretty nice girl, whats wrong, you can talk to me or message me if you need someone to talk too, you dont deserve that

[andrew19vato]

the best thing to do I find is if somebody's nharrasing you or something just ignore them, dont give them one second of your time and then it wont evenmatter that theyr'e saying what theyr'e saying........because if you think about it, it doesn't!!

peace

[espioninjaman]

I can't believe people do that and after you ask them to stop they don't! I either find them to be jealous or a stalker.

btw I lold a little when u looked at the camera and said "fuck, u". sorry if I sound rude

[xmoroseguyx]

Please don`t take to heart, any of the inane, purposely negative, and as you rightly say judgemental, comments you get on any of your videos. You do not have to justify yourself to these people! Its not just you! Anyone who been on you tube will see these kinds of comments everywhere. Unfortunately it seems a lot of people in society just don`t understand the hold, mental disorders can have on you.