Shawn's thoughts on Daddy/son relationships

This is how you might describe Shawn and me. Since this video was taken, we have grown closer together, and have reached a level of intimacy I never thought possible. In many ways by default, Shawn has been the father I never had. And let me tell you, he makes one damn good one too.

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[2rs2pure]

Im 14 and Ive had sex with a 40 year old...

Thats makes me wierd to be honest.

And that makes the 40 year old a pedofile? :S Or am I wrong?

I dont know.. But I like it anyways so Idc if he uses me...

But is it wrong?.. I mean im ..Very young and stuff, but so what ?

[grizzandpanda]

It is good that you feel a bit weird because the 40 year old man you had sexual relations with is, by definition, a pedophile. While there is an age difference between Chris and myself, he was 22 ( of legal age) to make up his mind. At 14, despite whatever feelings you might have, the law views you as a minor and a 40 year old man having sex with a 14 year old is a crime. Plain and simple. I do wish you well. Please be careful in the future. I'd feel awful if anything happened to you.

[Idealyst]

I'm 22 too and my lover is 65. We have the same problem... sorta funny, you'd think that if any group of people would be accepting of things it'd be the gays.

You're not alone! :P

[grizzandpanda]

Thanks bro. It means alot. Peace out.

[shawnnh58]

You mean you AREN'T after my money??? LOL! If you were, then the joke's on you dear! Love you.

[grizzandpanda]

Love you too.

[BCcubbie09]

Nice to know that there are people out there in the same situation. 20 and 60, yay. We pretty much get the same crap ,but all you can do is ignore it. Money......If I wanted that, I'd find someone that wanted that kind of relationship lol. Meh, I'll just suffer being loved and being in love and have self satisfaction in a meaningful relationship.

Best wishes ya'll. :)

[ghostchasr68]

Great video. I met my partner when i just turned 19 and he was 55. Lost him in 08 to cancer. Enjoy each other everyday..

[V3GAdigi1]

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[MrAshtonbrooks]

I'm 44 and my amazing graduate is 22 (going on 30). This man, and very much a man is highly educated, speaks 3 languages, his thesis work was stellar - and to know I got to be there to see him get his degree, along side his parents? That's what makes like amazing. 44 professor, parents love me, he tests my patience, and shows me international language while I teach him business. It's always conflict but a healthy balance of tension and rompin' hot sex.

He's not lookin for money.

[kenbefound]

What an interesting dialog. You guys are really putting it on the line here and I admire you for that.

[sarah4hp]

LOL... you two are so adorable together. I love the way you banter and tease each other, and the way you can always see the love between you shine through very strongly. And when all is said and done that is the only thing people should need to understand - that you love each other. I mean, your love doesn't have to look exactly like what those people that judge you are used to in order for it to be just as genuine, just as true, and just as valid. But, as you said Sean, people are ignorant.

[isubscribedi]

im 16.. and i want a daddy hella bad

[jsphil]

I love your vids. They have helped me alot. I am a 28 yr. old guy who is attracted to older men. I am going to be meeting a man who is 61 on Sat. He found me on a older and younger gay man dating site. We have been emailing each other for a week now. I am really excited and nervous at the same time, I have no idea what to expect because I have never done this before.

[shawnnh58]

Age doesn't matter a bit to ME, and to many people, but there is a matter of the law. YOU are not breaking the law, but you do put yourself at risk for harm, either now or later in life. If your life is difficult, people can reach out to help you and still not sexually prey upon you. There are some good people in the world who might help if you shared your story. We would certainly try to help if we knew more, but that is up to you. Please be careful.

[2rs2pure]

Yeah I do consider him as ..a Pedophile I suppose..

The thing is, ive had a horrrrible life, so far, and it gets worse anyways.. And he is the only one who is nice to me? ..

So.. Yeah.. He says he loves me, and then one second later he says he wanna..Well, ..Yeah..

But I dont care if its a crime. Im not breaking the law. He is. But I dont care,,I mean why does age have to be so ... Looked into...

And I may seem wierd atm..But..He is nice to me..