After 12 years, My Daughter Contacted Me

Big Bear Ron

Her gesture was/is commendable. I hope we can build a good thing.

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[Douger4u777]

Hi Ron, I will be VERY, VERY, surprised..If you children will ever except your life style. Being Gay myself. Having family issues myself. No children. I never wanted children. I like kids just not for me. Still so much prejudice who we choose to love!!! Its better today...then 10 years ago...Just my option. Best Wishes to ya...

[mybigbearron]

SURPRISEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!

They've chatted with Brendon.

[thesmiths1013]

I havent talked to my mom in 24 years and just recently called her. (she left when I was six years old, talked to her when I was 23 years old on the phone) now 24 years later, talk to her again... weird, akward is the word

[mybigbearron]

Yea. We can't undo the past, and the past should teach us a lesson or two about assuming too much about the future. I'm taking this in stride.

[thesmiths1013]

Ron, I know you dont feel this way, but I do, I dont know if I want a relationship with my "mom", too many years have gone by, its almost easier when she isnt in my life...

[mybigbearron]

I don't believe you owe anyone any apologies for facing reality like it is. If my children said the same things to me, I would understand that. That's why I'm taking it all in stride. We all have our own lives to live.

[ronbrendon]

i am a grandpa now huh? a young and cute grandpa... hee hee hee

[act6629]

I went through something simular. I have an older half sister who I didn't know about until I was about 11 or 12, and we finally contacted each other and met each other for the first time in January 2005 when I was 18. For whatever reason, there were only a few more phone calls, and then we lost contact once again. I suppose she feels some of anger or resentment towards my dad for not being a part of her life, I really don't know. All I know is that I found her on myspace a couple

[zolo187]

ur gay

[streetrat12]

very proud of this story

you guys finally reached each other :33

[Terminator860]

This dude reminds me of my drug counsellor.

[towlgrvm2]

ive been searching youtube for quite a long time now, for almost everything i need to know, until i came across your (mybigbearon) video on making puto your way,, and i found out that theres more about you, i find your videos very interesting and useful, and you are an honest man, continue your good work, i wish you all the luck, i hope you make it big on what you do.

[californiavolcano]

I pat you on the back for being who you are and I commend your daughter for reaching out to you.  No one should judge anyone else. Love your children, do not judge them and they will return the same to you. Peace

[tropicalja]

congrats!!

[CMLovejoy]

I never understood why a person would switch teams half way through the game.

It is, what it is.

[Douger4u777]

Yes, I'm very surprised! Thats a good thing though. I believe lot of people think gay people are just running around sleeping with any one, which is WRONG..Sure there is a lot freak going on in the gay world. There is a lot in straight world...