FEM GAY VS MASCULINE GAY

NO DISRESPECT I JUST I FEEL FOR MY FEM BROTHERS WHO GET A LOT OF SH*T FROM SOCIETY AND EVEN FROM FELLOW GAY MEN! THIS IS FROM A LESBIAN POINT OF VIEW WHO HAS BOTH TYPE OF GAY MALE FRIENDS...CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?!

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• FEM
• GAY
• VS
• MASCULINE
• GAY?

[quamp]

no disrespect, but honestly, the FEM gay guys that feed the stereotypes are the RUDE OBNOXIOUS, LOUD ones. please define flamboiant someone...

[nissatth]

Thank you for watching and for commenting love it is greatly appreciated. Your comments not going to get takin in wrong context by me but I do believe in order to understand each other is have others understand us.

I don't like to be judged or pre judged cuz I also know some of those fem gay guys who would also give me the shirt off their back so how they act doesn't irritate me if they are being just who they are.

That's all I want...to be accepted as I am..i can do the same..my opinion*

[MRBBJC]

I'm gay and I don't mind guys being delicate, but there are some that look crazy, speack like crazy and walkridiculously crazy... so they are gonna be percived as crazy...as you are gonna be percived as a masculine lesbian, because that's how you are dressed. I wish we all gays could be just normal. Speak normal, walk normal and dress normal...

[nissatth]

first of all sweetie I am not a masculine dressing lesbian. if you were to check out some of my vids you would see that I cam quite feminine but I also don't confirm so f**k normal. If we don't take the time to understand each other we will never change anything. If we are not open minded to who someone is n how they are.... aren't we just trying to be understood all of us.

i respect fem gay men and masculine gay women because they put they put themselves out there to be judged...

[DiVeronica]

The fact is that Masculine Gay Men are underrepresented. The whole "effeminate gay" thing, imo is likely just a modern cultural phenomenon. Cases in point, The Roman and Greek Empires, where choosing a guy to have sex with wasn't "gay" it was just a preference.

[cassiesmum]

If no one can accept you for who you are...that will always be their issue,not your own!! Gay camp guys, or butch lesbians...I know straight girls who are on the butch side,but they do not get any bad press from anyone anywhere and the same goes for knowing camp straight guys!! Its what makes our world so diverse...love who you love and stay who you are.

[MrSpemat]

@MrSpemat on the flip side, dudes aren't thinking you are a cock- hungry slut and chicks are always trying to seduce me and my man for being ourselves and it is gross and creepy and the barbie lesbians I know get the same thing from horny straight men and it sucks that no matter how much you tell them you are gay that they still don't bug off... being told to "act it"...

[MrSpemat]

as a masculine gay man, this issues goes both ways and the femme lesbians and masculine gay men get no Bravo or Logo airtime... I have thought feminine and masculine, gay, straight and bi men and women as well as many transgendered people I know were badass people... as a masculine gay man I am judged as harshly as many gay people are from homophobes and judged by femmes because I am masculine and I am not afraid to admit I am gay...

[vincentsfemaleclone]

My drag baby was laughing and crying tears of joy. You have a new fan who goes by the name "Jenny". <3 and as soon as I get away from the computer, he's taking over and spamming you. XD he says "fair warning, betches!"

[TheYipedo]

@Frizzurd True that. As a completely unrelated side note, I find the fact that I'm completely never attracted to feminine gay guys while not being able to be sure if a masculine guy is gay so I can hit on him without making him feel awkward if ever he's straight frustrating. Oh well.

[Frizzurd]

@TheYipedo masculine gay men are discriminated against by fem gays just as much as the reverse

[Frizzurd]

@DiVeronica we masculine gay men get little representation in the media...and if we do we are stereotyped as some kind of creepy leather daddy or child molester. I am attracted to fem men myself so i have no problem with them. Its unfair that we are emasculated all the time though, when we identify with the masculine side.

[TheYipedo]

I'm gay and I'm more on the masculine side because guess what? I'm a guy....Duh. I have nothing against effeminate gay guys but to suggest that masculine gays are just "faking it to appear straight" is just absurd. I'm being who I am and I'm not conforming to the effeminate gay stereotype just because I'm gay.

[ninethreefivesix]

Lesbians are the best, honestly. They're so fun and supportive I love them.

[phantomsuccour]

@DiVeronica actually you are wrong, there have been feminine gay men since the beginning of time. You may hate them, but there are there. They aren't the majority of the gay men, but they are still a part of the community. Your hate and discrimination against them just shows that hate and prejudice are a universal thing.