Let's Talk w/Ateya-Take Three

A woman is that is hurt over the fact she is married but IN LOVE with another man. Both men love her, treat her right and she loves the other man with all her heart. She she leave her husband or stay?

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[ddhayes6]

Your friend should honor her marriage vows and conduct herself as an honorable wife. If this guy is willing to mees around with her than he'd mess around on her.

[brnsis]

people always think the grass is greener on the other side, when it is actually mud, he is good to her now, but how will he be when she leaves her husband.

[MayaCherry86]

Me too! I'm the Same too!!! It's Hard for me!!! but my Story is a bit more different compare to this Story..For I was force to get married, and I didn't want to..Even now...Like they say : "Even if he has my body, My Heart belongs to another". I didn't understand that before, but now I do..it's so Sad....

[ceddyvette]

And when you can give of yourself freely without doubt, and question of the person youre giving yourself too, then and only then will one have a wonderful soulmmate. If you put love at the very top of the pyrimid, everything else under it can crumble and love will still stand. But if one turns the pyrimid upside down...well i hope yours getting mt drift..wink

[ceddyvette]

Well my question would be why did she marry in the first place when she doesnt know the value of marriage? She has to know that there will always be a man that looks, acts, and does things better than her husband. So where does one draw the line? One would think with her husband. And she must ask herself if the other guy was soo in love with her, well why didnt he marry her? Well we all must understand at some point that love is not about what one can give you, its about the giving of yourself.

[prettyboy1970]

Marry me, Ateeya!!

[kell1912]

Mon love to find a women in love another man. They try to pull ypou away form who u realy love. and women fall right in the trap. Does the man on the side love her the way she loves him. I would tell her stop taling to the man on the side.

[jaqueesha]

Tyler Perry's "Why Did I Get Married?" is a perfect movie to put these things into perspective: 80-20 Rule. Generally speaking, people in relationships can only suffice 80% of their partner's needs. The other 20% can be found from somebody else. Ultimately it is up to you which one you would like to keep. I say make a list and sort out the pros and cons and see who is ur 80% and which one is ur dispensable 20%. That way you wont make the mistake of leaving your 80% for a mere 20%. Good luck girl

[revivol47]

Love is a commitment: Don't be fooled and caught up in a trap set by the devil especially when you made a vow in front of witnesses and in the eyes of God!!

[LPHATCHERJR]

Well it sounds like she shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. If she only married her husband because he gave her everything she wanted then she married for the wrong reasons. She needs to sit down with her husband and tell him the truth and stop playing games because her decisions are affecting all parties involved. She is selfish and it should have never gotten to the point of falling in love with another man.

[bornavirgo]

continued...as I was saying, she probably does have the best thing at home...however, shes enjoying the chase right now! plan and simple! but shes treading on very thin waters!!! shes not crazy though! shes not leaving her husband! it's gone be the other way around! if he don't kill her first! lol. if your not happy with the one your with...then LEAVE!!! and I know it's not always that simple either! can't have your cake and eat it too!!! lesson learned...

[bornavirgo]

Well, haven't we all be there...lol. Ateya, I'm alway's agreeing with you lady on everything! and partially on this matter...only because we know how crazy some men can be! I just feel that it's very dangerous to tell your man or your HUSBAND for that matter that your in love with someone else!!! that may be the LAST TIME you say anything else! lol. It's a deep situation to be in...and apparently shes not totally happy! girl I have to finish this comment because I'm running out of letters...lol.