This video covers a new project I'm taking on and details the videos coming up.
If you're interested, please MESSAGE me here on youtube with your email address and I will send the application to you!! Thanks so much for your interest!!
Here is the info as promised:
Information and Policies on Sex Coaching With Kicesie
Q: What is Kicesie's version of Sex Coaching (or Sexual Health Guidance)?
A: We would discuss what your goals are (and what is holding you back or what your limitations are).
We go through a verbal history of your sexuality (understanding how your past effects you now and into the future), an assessment of your current sexuality and sexual relationships (or lackthereof), and then we set short term goals that will hopefully be reached during the weeks or months that the coaching lasts and long terms goals to keep in mind over the months and years to come.
It is all talk-based. In the time between sessions, there will be 'homework' which can consist of written and/or practical lessons. This helps maximize your experience.
It can also be used for couples in which case it also helps to facilitate conversations between two people about expectations, desires, frustrations, etc.
Policies
Short Term -
In all but very rare cases, Sexual Health Guidance is intended to be an intensive, short-term program. Because of that, it is the general policy to be a part of no more than 12 one-hour sessions per any given calendar year. In very rare cases, this policy can be overwritten entirely or a few more sessions might be added.
Payments -
All payments must be made via paypal before any session occurs. The price is $50-$100 for a 50 minute session (I am asking you to assess what you are able to afford). A one-time set-up fee of $35 is charged after the first session if additional sessions are desired. This set-up fee is for the custom 'homework' and materials that will be provided for you throughout the course of Sexual Health Guidance.
If you pay for 6 sessions at a time, the set-up fee of $35 will be waived. Any additional purchase of 6 sessions at a time will result in a 10% discount ($30+).
If you want to donate to a scholarship so that people who do not have funding for Sexual Coaching can still have access to it, then please contact me about this.
Cancelation Policies -
The number of sessions you pay for is the number you are committing to. The first session is up to an hour and half, though typically 75 minutes (at a discounted rate) BECAUSE it's so important for you to have a clear understanding of how I work and whether you believe we will be a good match (I will be making this assessment as well and if I turn away a potential client it is because I truly feel I am not going to be able to offer the correct type or level of assistance).
If, further into the sessions, it becomes apparent that I cannot offer the assistance needed, a full refund for all unused sessions will be given.
If the client is grossly inappropriate at any given time, the session will end immediately and funds may not be refunded. If someone is verbally inappropriate, a clear verbal warning will likely be issued (but a warning is not promised before all further sessions are cut off). If someone is physical inappropriate (partial or full nudity for instance), no warning will be issued and a refund will NOT be given.
Inability to Pay -
Unfortunately it will cost money on a sliding scale according to how much an individual can truly afford. The reason it has to cost something is because when something is given for free, it's not appreciated as it should be. Additionally, when someone is willing to pay for something, that tells me something about the level of priority they give the matter and helps me select who will be scheduled (as I only plan to take about 15 clients at any given time).
I'm very much hoping to create a scholarship where people who love what I do but don't need coaching can donate to a fund that will then be used for people who really do need the coaching but cannot afford it. Funding will be granted at that point by writing an essay to qualify.
If there are simple/short questions you have that I can help with, I always encourage people to leave those questions over at formspring (formspring.me/kicesie) and I'll do my very best to answer!!
Coaching, Not Counseling and the Ideal Client -
This is a coaching service. This is not counseling and should not be substituted for counseling.
The ideal client is someone who has clear goals that they feel they need guidance and help in achieving. This is not for someone who needs mental health services as, again, this is not counseling.
Age Limit -
This is for individuals 18 and older. If you are younger than 18, but the age of legal consent is below 18 in your state or country, you may appeal this policy by sending me a copy of the laws that state age of consent in your country/state.
What are your qualifications to give advice on these matters??
OneLousyShot 1 month ago
@OneLousyShot I have a BS in Psychology with an emphasis in human sexuality and am close to enough intern hours to qualify as a Sex Educator through ASSECT. But that doesn't really matter because there ARE no requirements/qualifications to be a life coach, a sexuality coach, etc, etc.... People can watch my videos, (and more importantly) interact with me on Facebook, and decide whether they way to go through this process with me.
kicesie 1 month ago 30
You guys are being overwhelmingly kind in your 'welcome back!'-ness!!! It reminds me to ignore stupidity and that real friendly viewers do still exist!! <3
kicesie 1 month ago 40