3 Good Reasons to Come Out

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[mutation173]

Well, girls indeed wanna be friends, had that aswell.

But meeting new people because of this, hardly :(

Haven't made new friends because we were both gay, never been in love with a gay guy and therefor never had a boyfriend. Still, comming out makes life better

[cheyneg]

well that's unfortunate. Besides, I didn't say being gay automatically gives you new friends. You still have to go out and meet them.

[mutation173]

Yeah but thats allways the case, isn't it? :)

Anyway, I made friends because we liked the same stuff, not because we both liked men.

It can happen if you hang around gay bars and stuff but when you dislike those places (like me) most friends will be straight :P

As you might notice, slow evening in world of warcraft :)

[cheyneg]

Yes, I like to think that's the reason why people become friends in the first place...because they share the same interests, not because they want to sleep with each other.

Let's try not to let our jaded sensibilities prevent more timid closeted gay people from coming out. Let's try and be encouraging, shall we?

[BurnTheReciept]

I love this!!

Good Job Cheyne :D

[cheyneg]

Aww thanks dude!

[cvstro]

"Cheyn with a C-H here"

[13thmistral]

ps: iam aslo not a good talker :/

3th reason: iam not a celebirty or any other shit

just like me ?

i dont say its the fault of the uploader or annyone else, but even besides outing my cynism on this shit, iam now even a litle bit down

[13thmistral]

how ever i dont care witch gender woud like me or who

i dont like gossip, and i dont like fasion at all though

i dont even know what the first means honestley XD

how ever, music is holly for me

i sometimes think without music, i woud have killed myself already by now

but my musictaste is to screwed up to be understanded for real

annyone ever heard of globus ?

no they never did :(

punk, (hard)rock, songs of the 80's from before my time, clasic....

on who in earths name coud i relate to ?

[13thmistral]

reason 2: ok, iam getting a bit lonley on this moment, but i never needed in my life realy"a lot" of friends

having just 3 is ideal, having more then 10,.....

ok i had that number of classmates i liked years ago, but of real friends 10 is just to much for me

3 if i meet gays because i come out....

people,(if) they only care about the people in theire category(they can get lost)

people loving me, nothing wrong with that, i always found there was never enough love in this world so....

[13thmistral]

well after a time the lying is getting exualy pretty fun

i swear i was a bit depressed for a time, but if you just have the spirit to think: "if i tell them they have one more reason to find me a stranger" and"inst it funny how they talk about gays like they coud reconaise them all" its pretty funny

i sometimes almost gigle on some of those moments

and i always say on all the questions: maybe later

[minusmn]

please, type: "Gosia & Ewa in the air" and vote baby vote

[vintagyst]

such a nice video... makes me feel better and encourages me a little...

how old were you when you told your family &friends?

[xlmaox]

very good points

[chrispycrunchy86]

I meant to so it felt so right, while feeling good as well. (this is like my 3rd time watching this vid, I think I totally have an online crush on you. <3) ...but I also wanted to ask, does anyone know of any LGBT online communities for youth?