Song used in video is Fully Alive by Flyleaf
Copyright and Disclaimer: NO PART OF THE SONG BELONS TO ME I DO NOT OWN THE SONG AND THE COPYRIGHT IS RESERVED ENTIRELY TO FLYLEAF.
((After Min 3:56 there will just be dead air I apologize in advance for that, I just couldn't get rid of it and I also apologize if I get you dizzy with so much video movement you can thank my 9yr old for that lol ^_^ ))
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At the end of it all I have come to realize...
* That hair is just that HAIR and it makes me no more or less of a woman.
*** I was able to physically demonstrate to my kids that true beauty is NOT only skin deep as we are shown on a constant basis by the media and our cultural surroundings that we as adults think we are no longer affected by which is ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE! (((this choice of shaving my hair was an eye opener to the reality that although I always spoke to my children about not placing all there focus on outward image my actions of fasinating myself about my hair was showing them otherwise, so my actions along with cultural beliefs of what beauty is created a certain image in my kids minds that I wasn't aware of that is till the hair came off and I came to understand that my children were becoming shallow in their thinking of what a beautiful woman is supposed to look like when they harsh truth of their words came out of their little mouths and said that they didn't want to go out with me unless I had a wig on.))) It was hard to hear this but a smack of truth that needed to be faced and talked about.
...because of my decision to shave off my hair and taking a stand my children were able to get rid of such thinking and are now walking beside their mommy as they rub her fuzzy bald head now in public =)
* Finally I have learned to let go of this inward-unknowing-to me-during-my -upbringing self destructive look towards beauty. I empowered myself as a woman by just being ME and accepting to love the real natural ME!
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