Re: Lazy Dating

I didn't do the best job of explaining myself in my first video. Nothing against IMs and texting, as long as you don't substitute real effort and the art of wooing a woman with it.

My entire point in this video can be simply put as: I am tolerant, and I do give 2nd chances, because although usually it's a waste of my energy and douchebags will remain douchebags, once in a while... once people get over themselves and their libido and open up to show you their true selves, you may get a great friend out of it.

Jen's response to my video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EltufwuU1Ms

My original video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eTnT_Fb1870


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[xxmomoxx1963]

I love your videos...your my favorite youtuber now....

[katConfidential]

@xxmomoxx1963 Awe. Some.

[LupineL00pine]

jomahgawd... you're back!

[katConfidential]

@LupineL00pine LOOOOOOOOPYYYYY!!!! I HAVE MISSED YOU SO!

[PervertedAliien]

If he really want to get to know you.. he will wanna meet you after a while. Getting to know each other over Social media/txts is okish. So you can feel what kind a guy he is.. if he is after a bootycall or he really want thinks that you are intrested.

Let's say this; You brain/thinking matches your physical Appearance. Now you can read that any way you choose. You way of thinking is so humble and sexy.

Joke: I wanna fuck ur brains out. Pun intended.

[katConfidential]

@PervertedAliien Ha.. not sure that was a pun as much as just a confession. Good luck with that. ;)

[LupineL00pine]

@katConfidential KATTTTYYYYY, miss you right back!!

Yes, I am 8 months too slow.

Go ahead, make fun of the retarded man- wolf, whose comments are as inappropriate as they are untimely. Oh, I'm defensive now, AM I? Oh it's because I'm frustrated, IS IT? The frustration could be sexual, COULD IT? Well, yea.. ermm, you're right on all counts if you thought that. Oh, you didn't think that,DID YOU? Oh, so now I'm weird, AM I? I can't ask any more retardastic questions as my 500 chars are done :/ .

[PervertedAliien]

@katConfidential I dont even remember what I was thinking writing this lol. My mind works in the moment and Obviously I must have thought this was funny in some way. But it sounds rather creeepy then funny lol. But yeah some of it was true.

[votejj]

FWIW, and coming from a guy, I totally get what you were saying. I do sometimes wonder if you don't analyse life too much though. I guess I find myself having comparatively simple interactions with people and not sweating the small stuff so much. Especially when it comes to people that are douchebags. I can hardly even remember the last time I had serious drama in my life, and I'm so glad for that. Simplify, dude. It's all good. Loving your work though, and you have given me a chunk to think on!

[Ziggystarla]

@katConfidential i believe by your definition, that would be NOT wooing. haha.

[karaseen]

I have had this as a debate with my guy often because he doesn't like that I maintain association with guys based on the fat that he knows they only want to get me. My argument s usually that of which you just stated, which isIf I give up friendships with people just because they initially were wanting me sexually then I wouldn't know many people at all. So it's a catch 22 for us. Do I dump my male friends or do I maintain the friendships because I know I can be platonic regardless?

[karaseen]

Dudes DON"T EVER want to be friends. If a male is a "friend" to you it is only because they are always holding out in hopes to someday nail you to put it bluntly. I have had MANY in depth convos about this with dudes and they openly admit that they only maintain friendships with chicks they want to bang. They'll say all the lines, but that is the bottom line fact. Unlike women who can actually be friends with a dude and not want him at all in any sexual way. It is just not the same for men.

[zeheero]

Yikes. This video made me kind of sad for ya Kat.

[SpottedAssedApe]

"Man is least himself when when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth." Oscar Wilde

The internet makes a nice womb for lots of people; they don't have to come out into the light and show their lack of character, or possibly attempt to grow one. I'll come right out and say it: I know I can't woo you or fuck you from 10,000miles away (as amusing as it might be to try) but I reserve the right to try and make you laugh; it's what I love to do.

[mupp33n]

@katConfidential Completely.

[katConfidential]

@mupp33n Wooing, are we?

[katConfidential]

@jenzatron Shank ya lovie... Yeah, I don't think there's a right or wrong answer here... One way of doing things just requires more effort and doesn't necessarily have a pay off.. hahaha..

[mupp33n]

jezez you're attractive, and like... cute and stuff and like so on and you know

[jenzatron]

"I feel like these cowards have a new sense of courage now because what's the worst that could happen via text?" I think this toootally sums it up.

I think this was a great video :) And I actually feel the same way about a lot of what you're saying, except for whole thing about giving the guys a chance. Although, hey... maybe that's why I personally don't have as many friends as you. :P

LOVE YOU TOO.