How To Deal With Negative People

I made this video to help anyone, young people or adults who deal with harassment, overly critical, judgmental people, haters, trolls, nasty comments... whether it be online or in the real world. You are not alone.

This is based on my own experiences. I have felt the need to make this video for months now. This is not about any drama regarding the Schuermans, their case merely reminded me.

I made this video to be a positive, uplifting reassurance for all of us who endure negativity. Let's all do our part to make this a more positive enjoyable environment.

If you are experiencing harassment or bullying in the real world, workplace, etc... You may find this website helpful.
http://www.bullyonline.org

United we stand against harassment, gossip and disinformation. http://www.facebook.com/girlsagainstgurugossip

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• how to deal with
• negative people
• negativity
• cyberbullying
• harrassment
• negativity on youtube
• internet bullying
• combat bullies
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[beautiijunkii]

Love this video! This is a topic that needs to be discussed/exposed and thank u for doing such a good job on shedding light on it!

[pinksofoxy]

@beautiijunkii Thank you so much!!! That was my feeling exactly! While we don't want to dwell on anything negative, I felt a little discussion of the topic would be helpful to many people. :) 

[TheCreaDiem]

Well said!

I love your videos, and I Looove your makeup in this video, tutorial please ;) 

[pinksofoxy]

@TheCreaDiem Thank you so much!! Tutorial coming soon. :)

[sohnhyes]

hey kristen, you inspired me so much and gave me so much encouragement. thank you for this amazingly insightful message, I feel so much better about starting a youtube channel now..:) <3

[pinksofoxy]

@sohnhyes Thank you so much!! I'm so happy this was helpful. Never let anything or anyone hold you back from doing what you want to do. :) <3

[staciarose20]

I've noticed that people like that do not change from their real lives vs. what they write on the internet. They are also negative and jealous in person. Generally really unhappy and selfish. They have to be selfish and self centered in order to try to ruin someone's day or lash out like that. For some reason they think their opinion should be validated and read by everyone, or they repeat themselves constantly. I know there are average trolls on here, but these women are something else.

[pinksofoxy]

@staciarose20 You got it! Exactly! There are the average trolls and then there are others that get obsessive and seem to develop a fixation. It's really quite strange. All I can say is avoid toxic people. <3

[ortecatii]

I love how your hubby supports you! And so many other of your subscribers! Thank you taking the time out of your life to make videos!!! :]

[lemonspica]

This is a very important topic and im very glad u chose to talk about it, with excellent advice from you and your husband. i personally think the opinions of these toxic individuals is about as valid as a speck of dust...if that. Coral tones are very flattering on you, as im sure ur aware, but just had to say it!

[tuminahs]

Tq so much for the vids. It does makes me feel much stronger inside

[arkrach]

if someone who doesn't even know you personally, would take the time to get on the internet to criticize someone, why bother to try to convince them they are wrong? A person of that character has issues that are beyond you, and can't be fixed by having an online argument. You can't take it personally. You are so right, they want it to affect you so you will give up, because misery loves company. I think youre great, and enjoy your posts, so keep on truckin!

[BeuWorldOfficial]

Love this video...its the absolute truth!....Keep doing what your doing...your a lovely couple...God bless...

[jkfitoop]

u r good :)

[customanimalart]

There was a Oprah viewer from Oprah's Lifeclass--'The Power of Ego' who said,

"I no longer think that it's possible that others can hurt me. They're just giving me THEIR observation. But, I'M giving IT meaning. And so now "I" get to choose 'what' that 'meaning' is!

That was a powerful statement. We can tell ourselves that we are okay and can be truly happy with ourselves, becoming so much more powerful by NOT listening to the negativity of others, by letting them drag us down.

[rachelmakeupable]

i love this. it helps people who are like in high school especially teenage girls because we get put down every day, though we may not notice at first. Love the way he was the quiet wise person and she was the explanator and added a womans perspective :) thanks!

[SassyLambert]

Thank you for this positive video. I am looking forward to starting a channel and know that the delete button is going to be a great friend. :) Yes, you do have to push haters to the side and go after what you want to do in YOUR life. You only get one chance at life, so go for it and don't look back!!!

[0007lena]

Well said <3