Dating Tips For Transsexuals 1.0

Some tips for MTF transsexuals interested in dating men. This is not based on my own personal experience, as I do not date men myself, but rather on what I have observed of the relationships my transsexual friends have been involved in.

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• trans
• t-girl
• transsexual
• transgender
• transexual
• lgbt
• gay
• straight
• boyfriend
• dating
• sex

[lalindabahiana]

you are a very beautiful and intelligent girl. You are beautiful inside and outside. This video was excellent. Very informative, logical, and interesting. But what about those transsexuals who do not pass 100%? Even after hormones, treatments, full facial feminization surgery. Please tell me what a person in that position should do because you talk only about trans women who pass 100%. So, someone who barely passes, who should date? Is she stuck to a tranny chaser who wants dick?

[TrannyGirl15]

Passing isn't that hard. FFS pretty much guarantees it. As for finding an accepting partner, it's hard for everyone, whether you pass or not.

[duchasheiress]

the problem i have to continually rectify is.. most people don't know about me when they ask me out..and for you to suggest that transgirls should not tell them... well certainly that makes life a bit easier, but its really underhanded and I cant help but wonder, if a relationship is to follow in spite of this, what type of precedent would this initial pretense set? And i completely agree with those "admirers"... I think its the most difficult part of it all to be desired and not wanted.

[TrannyGirl15]

I never suggest to "not tell them". I suggest to carefully pick the right time to do so.

[jun7per]

Play acting can be very dangerous. Any man who goes with a transsexual is not straight, they are clearly homosexual. By lying to someone about your true sex is so wrong. It could lead you into a very seriously dangerous situation.

Your living a long battle.

[TrannyGirl15]

Clearly homosexual huh? And why is that?

[warriorcop1255]

I do not think that a man who is drawn to a Transgendered woman is a Homosexual. I tend to think they are drawn to her because of her devotion to feminiinity. I think if you are dating a TG woman for "body parts" then you might be a closet Homosexual. But if you truly appreciate her for the woman she is, then I do not think that would make you gay in the least. Nor do I think it is "play acting"

[LOLFanme]

Great job. Very classy & done in good taste. Thank You.

[losha22]

@mskatwoman022008 thats exactly to happen to me to.

[Merrida100]

I'm writing this half way through your vid. The ONLY thing I would super strongly disagree with is never, ever (no matter who you are or the situation) put ANYTHING in writing, ever, that you wouldn't want to appear on myspace or in a court of law. Never. It's a face to face conversation, you both need to see each other's reactions to "the reveal." That's only FAIR. You can't hide behind a letter of revelation. Other than that, love your vid, well thought out, good points, and logical.

[mariobro60]

@grolheim I would argue that Calpernia Addams ABSOLUTELY passes. She is to me, and i'm sure to anyone who would see her, a beautiful woman.

[Lesrevesdhiver]

Thing about the tranny chasers is they have this stupid fantasy about the "chick with a dick" that they jack off to in porn. What those guys DON'T realise is even if they found one of those she-males, they would pay quite a bit of green to be with that.

[grolheim]

@TrannyGirl15

FFS doesn't always do that. Calpernia Adams had FFS and she doesn't pass when you see her next to a cisgender woman.

[mskatwoman022008]

so here is the deal. i dated this str8 guy fro a week and things went very well. and before we met i thought he knew that I am transexual woman. even though we went on dates many times and spent time together. i didn't tell him that i m a transexaul woman.....because i thought he knew and i thought that if he love or lik eme base on my personality and my feminitiy he would not carea bout what i have in my pant. but i was wrong. he freaked out and he couldnt have a relationship with me. i;m oktho

[lalindabahiana]

i disagree, there are dozens of women who don't pass even after full FFS

[lalindabahiana]

@duchasheiress do you really think that they don't know that you are a transsexual? Most trassexuals are delusional and think they pass even when they don't. They have a distorted perception of their appearance. So, I find it very hard to believe that they don't clock you. Come on, guys today can spot a boob job miles away, do you really think they won't spot a tranny?