My Verbally Abusive Relationship

Do you know if you're being verbally abused? Introduction to me and my abusive relationship.

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• controlling people

[ryukthekid]

You are beautiful.

My mom is in the same situation with my father. He always puts his voice at a high volume and argues about anything he wants and directs all of it towards my mom. If my father sees something he doesn't like, he will argue about it to my mom and make it seems as she is the one at fault. I hope you still check your comments 'cause I would love some advice from you.

[verbalabusejournal]

@ryukthekid email me at verbalabusejournals[at]gmail.c­om

[charmainelee7]

You articulated from your heart. You shared your pain openly. I hope that you have found the healing. Good luck to you. Begin to look within you and find that loving and kind person; take it and run with that!

[verbalabusejournal]

@charmainelee7 I have found healing - I left him over a year ago.

[NRWrx]

Its funny how things turn out,iv been doing research on this topic, and I was kinda shocked to find her behavior would fit into this... my wife havent really been verbally abusive until we had our daughter (which was kinda forced upon me) after that everything went down hill,I guess that gave her more confidence control over me that we have a child.. now that I look back at everything that happened,I can see the patterns and the techniques shes using which is really fucked up I feel you pain btw

[verbalabusejournal]

I know most of the research and books out there are geared toward men being the abusers, but if you can move beyond that and read "Why Does He DO That?!" by Lundy Bancroft and "Controlling People" by Patricia Evans, you'll have a leg up on the situation.

At least you'll be able to operate with a clear head while deciding if you want to stay with her or not. (No judgment either way; right now, I'm choosing to stay.)

[countryjem]

Great video

[sexysingingcupcake]

I am so scared to tell him its over. Every time I do he flips out and then finds a way to make me cave and accept him back. Hes an alcoholic and verbal abuser. He hasnt held a job in 4 years. I find the confidence then he does something sweet or makes me feel guilty when I tell him its over. Even his family have lashed out at me. His grandma called me a narsaccist. (sp?) Any tips or suggestions for anyone would be appreciated.

[Redbackbite]

what i could really highlight is that in my old abusive relationships they tell me that am what they are eg. irrational while he is the one being irrational.. you deserve better, i deserve better we all deserve the best for us we don't deserve what we had been brainwashed with for far too long.. i loved the video i watched the whole thing. Thank you.. All the best for you and your life. :)

[HighMindedLunacy]

I've been in a verbally destructive relationship for over 30 years. I was not quite 16 when I moved in with my husband (he was 33) and he told me he wanted a young girl so he could "mold her" the way he wanted. I was too young and dumb to understand what that meant. He tears me down constantly says things like " one of these days I'm gonna forget your mental deficiency (implying I'm crazy) and just pop you ! ". Everything I do is wrong- he has destroyed my self worth..

[NewWorldRob]

She's adorable, and very interesting to sit in listen to. A voice, ever so gentle in use. I love that a lot. The subject has no place with me, but I couldn't leave the clip until it was done n over with. It's funny that at the end, she makes mention of her makeup. Early I had noticed how nicely its applied. then in closing: "I probably won't be wearing makeup again..." lol...

[honeybee24511]

thank you, truely inspirational. For women of all generations, its so important to be educated... And after that parts over, to not feel alone. I related to 5.30 6.50, and about the charming part, well that's how I fell in love with him isn't it.. Take care, I'm going through a breakup and these videos add a dimension to a support system I would never had otherwise had access to. Just I would let you know