Hope After Parental Alienation

http://www.keepingfamiliesconnected.org Parental Alienation - A father's hope of healing for his children after parental alienation- by Rick Nischalke

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[rnischalke]

I'm not sure what is going on but I haven't been able to respond to any comments for the last week or so. If you look in the forum there are many subscribers having the same problem.

So I am trying this method - a post instead of a response.

[anthonygreenit]

Rnischalke, I'm in the same position, strangely with just one of my two children. If I can make a couple of suggestions, based on my own experience 1) make your life today something that your sons will want to be part of tomorrow (not easy!) 2) understand what it is in you that caused this to happen but WITHOUT ever blaming yourself (ouch, a tough one!) 3) desire your ex-wife's happiness (even tougher!): presumably she's doing it out of weakness, the cause of all war. Thinking of you & your sons

[rnischalke]

anthonygreenit,

Thanks for the kind words and good advice. If you watch some of the other videos I have posted, you will have a more complete understanding of our situation.

[elmejoractordemexico]

My God this is so sad!

How can a mother do that to her own children?

[rnischalke]

elmejoractordemexico,

Yes, and It is much sadder than any video can ever hope to show.

And I still cannot fathom how any parent could turn against their own child in this way.

It is totally unnecessary and destructive but the alienating parent uses "rational - lies" to assure themselves that they are doing the "right" thing.

Thank you for your comment and concern

[Italiangent1]

rnischalke,

Thank you for sharing your story. I pray for you and all experiencing this evil syndrome. They will seek truth and once they discover truth- they will want to be with you. Your X will have to deal with our Lord on Judgement Day for these extreme acts against your children and you their father. Be Strong Friend

[rnischalke]

Italiangent1,

Thank you my friend. Especially for your prayers for my children.

[addvoc8]

Most attorneys & women's supporters advise moms to make False Abuse Allegations as normal, primary means to win custody & divorce, winner takes all. 3/4 of divorced DADS in my area experience false allegations PLUS parental alienation.

Most parental alienation accompanies HER false allegations resulting in mothers having sole custody with most dads alienated from their kids.

Most GAL's & other court hangers-on support the rot lest they lose their seat at this banquet on children's flesh.

[vintri100]

@realexhousewifeoc very well put I couldn't have expressed it better

[vintri100]

people who do this, be it the father or the mother do not love their children ignorance plays a big part here too because they don't even understand that they are abusing their own child they are taking away their God given rights to have both a father and a mother SHAME on anyone who abuses a child in any way including PAS because we must realize that this is also a form of child abuse Thanks for these videos hope my daughter's mother sees them one day

[Ladyscroipo]

Im crying right now, Its only a min into ='( omg

[realexhousewifeoc]

How can any parent hate their child so much? Parental Alienation is the ULTIMATE HATE CRIME and CHILD ABUSE. They Destroy their child's self esteem, trust values, dreams, hopes, and critically impair them for future healthy decision making skills. They view them only as a possession/torpedo weapon against the ex. Ultimately these people truly Hate themselves and hide behind innocent children while victimizing them further destroying the stronger bond with the other parent. Jealousy is Key here

[sosadinal]

My son and his wife divorced in Dec of last year.  His ex has always been controlling but she is determined to turn his two sons against him. She has a lot of help from her side of the family too. It is a sad situation.....even for us, their Grandparents:( I hope your situation gets better. I am a product of divorce and I know kids need BOTH parents to grow up whole and healthy. Losing a parent is like losing a piece of themselves.

[FORMETOKNOWONLY]

after 13 years of alienation, my 17 year old daughter mustered enough courage to sneak away and call me...The next day her mother had her cell phone disabled.

All those b-day and Christmas cards I sent to my kids intercepted...no phone contact...Jeez, even prisoners are allowed phone and mail privies...I can tell you it has not only destroyed my life...but major emotional distress for my two daughters.

BTW: I love you Ashlee and Taylor! 

[TheKristie111]

It has been almost 2 years since I have seen my son. Yesterday I saw him for 30 secs because of a situation that caused us to cross paths. I have been crying non-stop since.

[SacredSocietyAP]

I know how you feel man...I have been going through this for years now. Someone please help me if you could. I haven't seen my daughter in over a year.

[shadowmare97]

Keep up the fight, you're clearly a dedicated father who doesn't deserve the kind of punishment you've been getting. I don't know what happened nor is it any of my business, but no loving father deserves to be taken away from his children. Never.

Stand strong :)