Why Would Somebody Just "Choose" To Be Feminine/Masculine?

im not here to hate any man, I got love for gay people, my cousin is gay,and he is hiv positive, but i just have to let you see this since u seem to believe in God:

1 Corinthians 6:9
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, NOR EFFEMINATE

the bottom line is that u can not b feminine & c the kingdom of God bro,if u want 2 go 2 heaven,CHANGE YOUR WAYS

What the word effeminate means in the Bible is this: a morally and spiritually slothful person that is weak due, primarily, to an excessive pleasureable sinful lifestyle.

dude after a little gool searching I c that u got ur definition frm a gay christian website called the purple pew,c'mon man seriously...now u know that being gay is aginst Gods will,so 4 u to use a definition of effeminate frm a gay website allready should let u know that it is a false definition,if u trully become born again and except christ as saviour YOU WILL be able to over come ALL effeminate ways & homosexuality with the help of God if u really are determined & want to,1000's have done it

That's not the ONLY website that definition is on, first of all.
Secondly, how I act has NOTHING to do with my relationship with God.
I've already given him the permission to change my mannerisms, so if you're not pleased with how I act, take that up with God.

Good day to you sir.

aight my dude thats good to hear ,& i never said I had a problem with your mannerisms,I just wanted to tell you that God has a problem with us being effiminate! but Im glad that you have been working wioth God to change and trust he will change you BRO, btw you got a hell of a voice man,real talk, like a young eric benet...just be carefull man dont sell your soul to one of these record labels to get big,people do it all the time.