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Most black women have hair that's not even long enough for a pony tail. Mostly, its due to bad hair care habits but you've gotta know many whites and others have bad hair care habits too, yet they have little problem growing butt-length hair.The vast majority of black women's hair is very short a...

Most black women have hair that's less than 4 or 5 inches long. Not even enough for a pony tail. Mostly, its due to bad hair care habits but it is what it is. Just because you can show a 1% example to the contrary means nothing.

The fact is that the vast majority of black women will never see h...

Right, but how many black women do you see with hair even close to this? Not even 2 out of 100.

I see every 1 out of 2 white women like this, and its nothing to them. And when their hair is short, generally they cut it like that. This example actually proves the point that very, very, very few ...

Its just you.

I think there are white guys who like thick women, just like there are brothas who like them.

The problem is in defining what's "thick." Over the years, we've started including obesity into the description when it just doesn't fit. 200 lbs -- or anything even close to it -- is not thick. Let's c...

We need to stop fooling ourselves. What we call long hair is NOT LONG anywhere outside of black culture.

Anyone can see that black women cannot grow truly long hair except in a small minority of cases. And even then its usually a mixed race situation and not pure black. Why do you think we wear...

BMI or no BMI, there's no rational reason why females should weigh more than NFL linebackers! They're just completely clueless about how they look or what its doing to their health.

These women need to learn to just leave all those accessories, hair weave and junk in the store. Put on jeans an...

It’s always easier to look to the external, than to truly assess. Many women are in happy, mutually rewarding relationships with successful black men. They’re out there.

The "black men are intimidated" mantra is a smokescreen. Many women are intimidated by men’s success because it’s foreign to t...

Yeah, that's overweight. And outta shape. Guaranteed obesity and much cottage cheese in her future. Hell, in her present.

You are 100% right in everything you've stated. I don't know when all this brainwashing became the "norm" in the black community, but it is so evident in so many ways. We really need to wake up as a people and start using our heads.

Mental dysfunction in the ghetto is something few are ready to admit to, but the evidence of it is ever present.

@CarvinCole You're right! Yeah, there are exceptions to every rule (and, yes, its true some cats never leave the ghetto mentality no matter how much they come up). But for the most part brothas with any real status, income and options will opt for in-shape females almost every time. NOT two hund...

That one at :50 is awesomely cut! Beautiful!

I do recognize that more and more of our sistas are taking their health and appearance seriously and are living an active lifestyle. But I WISH even more would finally get it.

I find it interesting how whenever a black person expresses thought or opinion that falls outside the status quo, he or she is automatically accused of being white. It's almost like black folks expect black folks to all think alike, and have no ability to think for themselves. Come to think of it...

@mclambalfred I feel ya, but keep in mind, advertisers pay millions of dollars to present what MOST of the audience out there wants to see. Your idea idea of "flat" is a whole lotta other men's heaven. Just like some brothas think 200 lbs is "thick," where I and lot of others -- black and white -...

Perfect ass.

@gmcmim1 Thanks, but its not even about respect. Its about honesty. WE are worse at the "black is ugly" thing than anybody else. Yet we feign all this "outrage" when others express the same? Its pathetic. WE believe black is ugly, regardless of the bullshit we spew to the contrary. Always have.

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Unfortunately, sistas have a very negative reputation fir beingve actky what this woman's asserted to have done. They don't get it. They behave as they do and when decent black folks cone behind them, they get painted with that same brush. I wish more of our people could just think about how thei...

Bad advice here. Yeah, if you want to fool the crap out of a guy to keep him around longer than he otherwise may have, then follow this.

If not, be honest in all dealings. If he leaves, that's good for you, AND him. Why would you want to hold onto a guy by lying and trickery? If a guy doesn't w...

I don't agree that is someone likes lighter skin that somehow they're against being black. There are many shades of black, including very light tones. That's about asstupid as saying white people hate their race because they tan. It's a preference WITHIN the race, not an indictment against it. Do...

What I find interesting about the many, many brothas depicted here is not so much the skin color, but the obvious lack of overweight and obese women many of these same guys would probably be claiming they "liked" if they were poor and unknown.

It seems to me that, contrary to the bombastic clai...

First of all, young lady I want to say you are a beautiful, articulate, very classy young lady. Just wanted to get that out there.

My thing, more so than race or skin color, is the obesity epidemic that seems to hit our sistas in such huge number. Its harder and harder today for a young man to f...

When you have a group of women who go after losers from very early in life -- even getting impregnated by multiples of them by the early 20s -- its disingenuous to ask why they can't maintain long term commitments. Let's be honest: far too many bw make themselves completely unmarketable early on....

Yeah, she was beautiful. And very classy looking.