Oh, and don't try to go back to your original thread later. It's try-hard. The Mystery Method 109 Often if you do not lead the conversation by actively cutting bad threads and introducing good threads, and if you instead delegate this responsibility to the girl, then she will allow the conversation to get boring and then she will blame you and think of you as a boring guy. So do it right and make it happen, because she won't. "So how do you all know each other?"