You should have an option for gay people!

yep, it IS a terrible idea- as evidenced by the fact that now, without any explanation given, men are now allowed to contact some women on the site- which is totally against the "concept", if you could call it that, of the site. Pretty much an admission that this whole thing is an abysmal failure.

The idea that a dating site where the women would & could seek out men only instead of demanding to be the center of attention and have all the men come to them is idiotic. My guess is that the policy change is due to one or more of the following happened: 1) men quickly left the site after signing up because no one was contacting them, 2) women began leaving the site in droves and/or whining about being "ignored"...

'course, that makes me an idiot for signing up myself... I bet the website will be finished before my subscription duz... maybe i will get a partial refund. Or not.

terrible idea

You people make me sick for implying that men are devolved primates.

women will start having a taste how it is to get rejected. After a few "no" they may have their ego bruised as the guys who make the effort, get rejected and often made fun of by girls...may be it about time guys to make fun as women try to get them. Aaaah and don't expect me to pay a lady's drink..she has to treat me like the God I am and I want the best...she has to buy me flowers, buy me dinner and I will see if I will think her again. I am a bit bratty and bitchy guy...what can I do ?

elvenlust - I am with you!

Maybe......just maybe, Herway should offer free registration for a month if they expect REAL results?  WHOS withh me on this?

gave it a shot...... not worth the effort. I get better dating opportunities at a bar. Deleting my profile.

I'm not sure anyone is actually using this site. My profile hasn't gotten a single view, and my pictures aren't bad. I refused to enter in my income though.

I would say that since men can't search profiles or seek out contact that what men pay vs. what women pay on this site should be drastically different.