Family comes frist to anything for anyone family will always love you and they would hope for you to love them back, Never say they don't love you cuse if they did't love you you would not have anything on your plate, They would't let you be under there roof. With friends, I make sure they don't take a bad path i motovate them to do anything i think they can do, I would help them with anything i would make sure friends are real friends. I don't belivin secrets, Or anything like that life will be life.