fuck anyone who blames the victim of rape i dont care if you were raped for 5 years straight if you are raped by a bf he is in complete control yea you could run away or break it off but you cant see that at the time he completely takes over your life it never goes away and you blame yourself for not stopping it everyday it doesnt mean it was your fault it just means he had that much power over you so dont sit there and say if she let it go on that it was her fault bc it wasnt