There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout: This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision. When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{In Gardens (Paradise) they will ask one another, about Al-Mujrimûn (polytheists, criminals, disbelievers, etc.), (And they will say to them): "What has caused you to enter Hell?"
They will say: "We were not of those who used to offer their Salât (prayers)
"Nor we used to feed Al-Miskin (the poor);
"And we used to talk falsehood (all that which Allâh hated) with vain talkers.
"And we used to belie the Day of Recompense
"Until there came to us (the death) that is certain."
So no intercession of intercessors will be of any use to them.
Then what is wrong with them (i.e. the disbelievers) that they turn away from (receiving) admonition? As if they were frightened (wild) donkeys. Fleeing from a hunter, or a lion, or a beast of prey. {}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}{}}{}{}{}{}{When the sun is overthrown. And when the stars fall. And when the hills are moved. And when the camels big with young are abandoned. And when the wild beasts are herded together. And when the seas rise. And when souls are reunited. And when the girl-child that was buried alive is asked: For what sin she was slain. And when the pages are laid open. And when the sky is torn away. And when hell is lighted. And when the Garden is brought nigh. (Then) every soul will know what it hath made ready