This page is set up for all Teleiophilia's, to understand the Differences between Paedophilia and Ephebophilia(at the bottom of the page),with out the stereotype narrative involved, which can be dangerous!, I am not here to promote a Ephebophilia, ideology, but enlighten, because most legal Ephebophilia activity is based on laws in other country's, involving culture and religion(which differs),this page is not here to refer to pedophilia,but Ephebophilia instead, ill be also including possible laws to help separate the good from the bad, and maybe able to help parents see a open side, there is so much hype over paedophilia because of the Catholic church, and Christian churches, which has damaged a lot of Understanding by stigma and fear, the colonization of Northern Ireland, which resulted in many women and children raped, was not properly documented as those women who were raped, brought children into Ireland,it was never disclosed, it is a dark part of our history, which is not documented, because those women could not pass on their stories under a British plantation, there is documentation of how the British colonized, that information is limited, but it is part of the reason why we in Ireland, are the way we are, if all these negative actions never happened in Ireland, Irish Culture would be different, we would probably still have our Breton laws, and our perspectives, but there are other things also that has affected peoples perspectives, apart from the media, people like Arthur Kinsey, who started the Sexual revolution, and is responsible for advertising children as sexual beings in the early stages of the porn industry, he is seen as good and bad in the gay community, and by members of NAMBLA,but not by others like myself, but Ephebophiles have become out casts and Dangerous in today's world because of the huge amount of fear, and pressure placed on them by the media, but here is the Catch, an Ephebophile in today's world is classed as a paedophile(in some countries),because the media sell more papers using the word pedophile,and I just want to put them straight, calling a "Ephebophile" a paedophile or a predator, will just get some one hurt, I don't support sex with minors of the age 1 to 14,but I do not support the media slandering a man, because of his emotions towards a 15 year old girl or older, now the reason why Ireland is in the position it is in,1-because of bad politics,2-,the amount of colonization that has gone on in years and even today, because it never ended, it has changed the mentality of Irish people in a dark way, in other words we have too much of bad blood in Ireland, especially in Northern Ireland, there are a lot of Biased beliefs, and children are at the centre of it, I am not very proud of Ireland, its heritage is trying, but the people of Ireland have every right to fear, especially the rough culture, I wish Ireland was a culture that was free from Hatred, and anti social behaviour, its not healthy for young people, I always wanted Ireland to be colourful, in its perspectives, but I believe most of that is damaged by fear, so to all the Ephebophiles who have emotions, hold onto them.
My views on Ephebophilia are simple, I want to remove the whole idea of secrecy between teenagers and parents, lets face it, if a girls is going to have a crush on a boy her own age, she is not going to tell her parents who that person is, they are going to do it any way, she might get pregnant, she might not.
If she does get pregnant, then the father of the child, who happens to be a teen and the same age as her self, cant support her, or the baby, he will most likely get away with it(depending on his parents),and move onto the next girl, I have seen it.

If an Independent Older man over the age of 18 (handsome),became involved emotionally with a girl who was between the ages of 15 and 18,or she was attracted to him, and it was not a secret with the parents, then it is most likely that her father would want to know who he is, and keep things in check between his Daughter and him, if he is a decent man, young girls are going to hide things from their parents, but there is also the issue of Maturity of a girl of that age,15 to 18,i am not trying to break the borders of age, but I do want to highlight the maturity of some girls at that age, and by removing the secrecy between parents and teenagers, teenagers wont end up pregnant, they wont end up hurt or missing, and they wont end up with some waster teenager, as I have seen with some teenage boys who are older, I have seen teenage girls go to waste because they were with holding information from their parents, I want to remove the secrecy behind the fear, by relaxing it, by giving teens the education they need, and give parents the power to choose, and control. It does not always work like that, because families are different, but it's a start, take away the secret and no one gets hurt, by keeping the parents in control.

I also have ideas when it comes to teenage boys who like older women,like i said before,they are going to have sex with somebody at some time,sometimes with older women,maybe some one there own age,older Women are different compared to men,they are more gentler,and Emotional than men,i think that if a Teenage boy who was 17 years old for example, were with a older woman who was 25,and she showed him how to please a woman,i think it would do more good for him,it would give him the experience to be gentle,compared to having sex with a girl his own age or younger,and maybe hurt her, or getting her pregnant...because of lack of experience,there is a lack of trust, too much secrecy is Destroying young people out there,most of it is ignorance,which causes more harm than good,and they wont have a healthy sex life later on in life.these are some of my perspectives.
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Here are the Problems...1.Drugs, 2.Cultural Deformation, 3.Disease, 4.Anti Social Behavior, 5. Fear 6.Secrecy,7. porn, 8.Education