Asalam o Alekum, Allah says: you want and I want, what you want can't occur without my will, whereas whatever I tend to do I can make it occur without your will. So if you obey me in what I want, I will be sufficient for you.
He will grant you an everlasting life and eternal peace. Allah hasn't hidden peace in money or wealth and luxuries. Allah has concealed all these things in following the Sunnah of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
You want Jannah, become a follower of Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) You want refuge from Jahannam become a follower of Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) You long for honor/ admiration/fame then grasp on to the Sunnah of Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
You want to be loved by Me, hold on tightly to the Sunnah of Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wasallam).
You want your children to obey you, seize on to the way of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam).
You wish to generate affection in people's hearts, then become a Muhammadi.
You desire wealth, become a Muhammadi.
You want to be rich become a Muhammadi.
You are urging for dominion/dictatorship become a Muhammadi.
You have a greed for power and leadership, become a Muhammadi.
You want to be saved from deterioration/destruction become a Muhammadi.
You want your offspring to be noble, so first you be a Mohammadi and a true follower of your guide (sallallahu alaihi wasallam).
You want to cast terror in the hearts of your enemies become a Muhammadi.
You want falsehood to perish/be crushed become a true Muhammadi.
You want blessings to shower upon you become a Muhammadi.
There is just one key to all the treasures of the heavens and the earth, Allah has broken all the other keys. That single key is "Muhammad ur rasul ul Allah" follow the path of Muhammad (sallallahu alaihi wasallam)
No relationship matters. He doesn't care whether one is Quraishi or Hashimi, being Arab or Non-Arabic makes no difference in His eyes. Following the path of His Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) is what distinguishes one from another in His eyes.
Whosoever will meet Him molded in the Sunnah of His Prophet will be His beloved. Whosoever averts from this path shall be dishonoured and humiliated in this world and the Hereafter.