I think a man should not hit a woman but I have seen where a woman eggs a drunk guy at a nightclub or bar. Usually I would leave but if the woman wants to man up and start hitting, then don't go crying to the media about the "tough guy" that hit you.
As a lesbian I hate seeing this too. Especially being a femme makes it twice as hard because all guys think that feminine women can be only straight and just kiss each other for their attention.
Sexy you are!