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For those of you who have a similar situation to that of akamakiba's:
The fact that (s)he's doing that seems rather immature (if not outright stupid). A girl wouldn't agree to go out with you unless she likes you - she's crying out for attention, simply because you're not "giving her enough" for her to be satisfied. However, a mature relationship (in other words, one that can work) is one with open communication between both parties. She could have asked you to be more attentive to her, and you probably would have, knowing men as I do. The fact that she didn't suggests severe damage to both her psyche and the internal core of the relationship. It's very dubious that you got to the problem in time to save your relationship. It will be more painful overall to drag it out, although the initial pain of the breakup will be rather acute. Having time to accept its end won't make it easier to deal with - it'll just make you go through the pain of breaking up, along with the pain of knowing that you want to break up. Get what I'm saying? You have to decide for yourself whether or not you can save it, and if you can't (which is probably the case), then you should end it.
Sorry, he asked me to do this (it was part of a private conversation that we had). I don't know him, but he seemed to be in real pain, and I can't help but want to give him advice.
I am so nuts.
Age
25
Country
United States
