Yeah he is absoluely legendary ....his wit his humour...I was not specifically sayin the only thing about him was his looks....I dont think if he was a boring asshole id have left the same comment...it is his wit that makes him fantastic, the fact hes so good lookin is a complete bonus

the song in the l word video is 'painted by numbers' by 'the sounds'

We emulate, then find our truest selves merge with our influence by that and in turn we finally express something unique and all our own out of all of it.... I think thats how it works ;^)
Usually during this process.... at least from my own experience...during this process and being on the verge of breaking through it to meet our best creative intent beyond whats been done before...it is almost impossible to have a clear judgement on how others percieve you but the truth is that they being on the outside and looking in will find you unique and of a new mold that has never been before..... I truly believe this to be true