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Puritans have said these things :
"if you have sex before getting legally married then you will get a bunch of stds" WRONG!
You will only get STDs if the person you are having sex with has them. If the unmarried people having sex are healthy virgins then there will be no STD problem.
Married people can get STDs too. Marriage doesnt stop STDs. It's not about if they're married or not. It's about the people. Marriage in that situation is just like the points on whose line is it anyways.
"everybody who has sex before getting legally married will get a terrible breakup & a broken heart" WRONG!
Not every unmarried couple has that. I have seen unmarried couples date & love each other for years & they are just as fine as the rest of us.
The divorce rate in this country is very high. Marriage doesnt solve that problem either. Again it's not about if they're married or not it's about the people.
"if you arent married then your lover can cheat on you" WRONG!
Married couples cheat on each other all the time.
Most unmarried couples don't cheat on each other. There's alot of unmarried couples who are loyal to their lover.
Again whether they're married or not is just like the points on whose line.
"having sex before marriage will lead to pregnancy then abortion" WRONG!
Not all unmarried couples have babies. Not if they use protection or are lucky. There's married couples who get abortions because they can't afford to take care of the baby.
Again whether they're married or not is just like the points on whose line.
"if you wait till your married then sex will be beautiful" WRONG!
If they wait till their old then it is more likely they will be ugly & out of shape. Most of the people who waited till they were married were fat, hairy, & out of shape when they had sex which is NOT beautiful.
You want beautiful sex? then forget waiting till marriage, get into shape, remove all pubic hair, bathe good, & get urself clean & sexy, do it while your young THEN it will be beautiful.
Age
18
Country
United States
