"You know, Don Juan, I think was not a philanderer - just a perfectionist. He was only looking for the perfect counterpart for himself. It is so hard to find the perfect counterpart.
If I am really loving a girl, I am wanting to share everything with her - skiing, swimming - damn it, there is a word in German for which there is no translation." He asked me for my pencil and carefully printed it out: Mitteilungsbeduerfnis.
"You must have it with the one you love - and it is a basic element in any creative person. The word says a man has a need, a passion to give his experiences to others. He is needing to tell to another person his experiences, the beauty he sees and is touching. But it is not an easy affair like chewing the fat over a glass of wine. With this feeling, if you are in love with somebody you want to share everything. You want to convey things - the entire gamut. Now if I'm in love it's a very, very lousy love if I cannot share from top down to hell with my girl. I am not in love only when we are happy."