What do you really write about yourself that may or may not offend someone in your life or who may read this. I am a single man, well over 40 years of age and trying to be all I can be. I enjoy life to the fullest and have very few "close" friends and allot of acquaintances in my life. I enjoy what ever life issues me and deal with the bad. I have been in Chicago for over 5 years and have lived in Texas, Tennessee, New Jersey (home), Virginia, Colorado, California, Pennsylvania and New York. Traveled the world while I was in the Navy (proud to have served my country for 12 years prior to the awful "Don't Ask - Don't Tell" policy). A Gay man who enjoys romance, fun, a little kink and being around friends and meeting new friends. I love my sports and not what you call the typical gay man. As I tell many of my str8 friends the only gay thing about me is the men I sleep with.